do i have a chance dating blondes? im...

[Jamsky]

...asian guy? im 5'11 i work out 4 times a week i got a surfer body type.. i usually shop in express... semi formal.. and when i go to the clubs i usually dance with white girls and i don't think it bothers them that im asian.. but sometimes i think that there just being nice to me that why they didn't reject me... but this weekend there's really a hot blonde girl i dance with and ask her # and my surprise she give it to me.. and to think she the hottest girl there in the club.. but i experience this before i ask girls # from the club and she give it to me.. and text her saying hey wanna hang out she told me she's think about it? i think messed up there cause girls like to know u first before u ask them right?? so i didn't go well for me... and think my looks is okay but i just don't have a guts and im so shy..

[tiny2kool]

just show her your karate skills, she'll dig u

[Amanda 1-25-92]

awwww.. of course you do ... you just got to have confedince ..... with that you can get any one...

[Shelby R]

Ha lol... yes you git a chance, don't act lame and have confidence in yourself!

[ria]

prolly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! act yourself imma blonde!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Special Love]

Generally, blondes don't like asian guys.

[The Sign Babe]

Hey,Dude! I am a Blonde. So I am going to tell you the true.....Yes! Some Blondes will and some will not. So if you like a blonde.......... just be yourself and she just might like you. The Sign Babe

[jolu41]

I'm 5'9'', Latino and stocky (210 lbs), and I've dated blondes before. No problem unless you make it bigger than it seems. Your problem is perhaps that you are too shy to seal the deal as you should.

[CWS]

First of all, seriously answering you, it's possible. Tons of Asian men/women date/marry Caucasian men/women. I personally know of I think 3 Asian guys dating White girls. I think you're preventing yourself from the possibility by thinking that you don't have a chance.Also, your club scenario isn't the best... I mean... you don't really know anything about each other. Some girls just give their # out but might not even remember who they gave it out to. Be more confident and don't worry so much about how you look and dress.

[mommy2b24]

It doesn't matter if you are Asian, or that she's blonde...if there is going to be a connection there will be. But you definitely need to find a way to have confidence, if you are confident, you will be much more attractive...to blondes and all women.

[BRIAN J R]

if you dont ask then ya never know jsut cause it hasnt gone too well in the past doesnt mean it will be the same now just get out there cause ya gonna regret later trust me & just cause your asian doesnt mean nothin!!!

[Summerlynn]

I think you have a chance to date blonde's i mean do you live in NY? its all about Asians and blonds lol. But all jokes a side i think you should go for it if those are the type of girls you feel attracted to. If one neglects you then theres always another one. Loosen up and let go of that shyness because usually its always the guy that has to ask the girls so don't wait for a girl to ask you out lol. And if your as attractive as you say you are then i don't think you will have a problem.-best of wishes

[DemonicDLH]

I don't see any problem with it. I am a black guy and I only date white women. I have never heard this thing about blondes but I think that it is quite ridiculous that all of these people on here are telling you, "no way". I say you can date any girl you want even if her hair is orange.

[baymast13]

I'd go out with you, but I'm not blonde. Generally, if a girl gives you her number, she's willing to get to know you a little more. Start slow, invite a girl out for coffee or a drink. See how it goes from there. If she says she has to think about it, give her a few days, or a week. Then try again. If she still won't meet you, forget her and move on.Why focus on blondes? There are plenty of pretty, available brunettes and redheads around. You might miss the girl of your dreams if you're only looking at hair color (and how do you know it didn't come out of a bottle, anyway?). You sound very attractive, you just don't have confidence. Use those numbers you're accumulating. More girls than not will be willing to meet for coffee. It's a short "date" so if they (or you) just aren't feeling it, you don't have to endure hours with somebody you aren't hitting it off with. Good luck!

[webkinz rocks]

who cares if you're asian if she really liked you she won't care and dude you should be happy of who tyou are and where you're from you know that don't you cause if yoyu don't then you're one dumb asian...sorry to say

[sarahD]

Im a blond and i have an addiction for asian guys im dating one, Being asian isnt bad at all everyon is the same if you think about it just look different and somtimes act different. i totally think you have a chance with a blond to be you sound very good looking and alot of fun. Too bad im young.