My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he...

[xforcesxsmilesx]

...couldn't handle the stress, and drama? I have an injury from work, and have been out of work for 7 months, and waiting on workmans comp stuff to come through, and dealing with the pain all the time and no sleep. We started dating a month or so before my injury. I was ok for a couple of months, but as time went on I developed depression, and anxiety.I was really frusterated by my situation, and I didn't have a lot of friends to talk to, and ended up talking mostly to him, and hanging out with him.I honestly didn't know that he wasn't happy, he would never talk to me. He finally broke up with me about a month ago, saying that he couldn't handle all the drama I was(and still am) going through.I know that him being younger than me created a lot of maturity differences, even though he was more mature than most people I know. But there were other things too. I still get a nervous feeling when I think of my life without him, I thought he was the one.Do I get over him? Or what? I don't know what to do...I forgot to add that he said he wanted to be friends. I have only seen him twice since he broke up with me, and each time was really hard.I decided to leave him alone, so I haven't talked to him in about 3 weeks, but I still talk to his mom, and his brother. Because I became really good friends with the both of them.

[Lisa H]

you dont need him aorund anyways.....heys just drama

[texas tornado]

YEAH, get over him. He should have been there when you needed him the most. If he couldn't handle that minor of a set back can you imagine him being there for you for something REALLY major?

[chevyorange73]

give this guy a break and go kill yourself, not really just leave him be he is not worth it

[la buena bruja]

As hard as it is to accept, it's better that you found this out now. Obviously, when things got rough, he left. You know, then, that he certainly was not the "one" for you. I hope things work out for you and that you find someone with a better sense of commitment next time around.

[attyjudz]

Men are not really good at handling emotional situations and most of the time they tend to run away.Perhaps the best thing for you to cope with this situation is to try to move on. You can't depend on people to make you feel good.No one is interested to listen to all your troubles and make them help you carry the burden of the world.

[Dianne]

It doesn't sound good if he isn't going to stick around when you need him the most. You sound young. You should wait until you're about 28 to find "the one." That way, you have a much greater chance of a lasting relationship.

[debzeedo]

You are better off without him!!!When you find the one-for-you, he will be there to support you either emotionally, financially, or physically.The question you have to ask yourself is:Do I want to be with someone that is going to run at the first sign of trouble?

[Lucky S]

He was not the one if he couldn't stick with you during this trying time. If he couldn't even handle this situation, how would he react if something even worse happened in the future? He would bail just like he did this time. You cannot count on this guy to be there when you really need him.

[jasonlai73]

i always urged but in vain to my ladies friends not to go for younger guys no matter how matured they may seems. really.