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adil
01-29-2008, 01:51 PM
My and my aunt entered into sexual relationship. My uncle expired 4 years back. She was a widow. We enjoyed with each other in everyway for around close to 3 yrs. Now I don’t feel attracted towards her. She has told me that she pregnant with my child. We had never agreed to marry each other. We were physically attracted to each other. Infact she was the who initiated it from her side. I stay with her alone in Mumbai as my parents stay at our native place. How should I convince her for abortion. I want to leave her now as I am worried what will my family tell me and her. I have also heard she has an affair with someone in our building. Please help how I convince her for leaving me and for abortion.i understand that having a baby is not good but the problem is she is my aunt. What should i do as the next question would be who's baby it is and obviously people would come to know its my baby. We had agreed from the begginning that we will never get married but having a baby without marriage will ruin both of us. Is there some other wayI am 29 year old and she is 35, we both entered into relationship when we were high on our needs. She was also alone and me also and we both were adults. Infact she was the one who wanted someone to satisfy her and i just fell to her prey. I also love her in the begginig as it was the first time i had sex with anyone.

tulips23
01-29-2008, 04:08 PM
Aborting the baby is not the way to solve your problems. It is not the baby's fault. You need to deal with the consequences of your actions!

ttcANGEL#1
01-29-2008, 05:13 PM
If she doesn't WANT the abortion then leave her the **** alone & let her have the baby that YOU helped create! Irresponsible ASSHOLE! Just leave her...it'll be better for her & the baby without you there!

MumOfTwins98
01-29-2008, 06:03 PM
For one what the hell were you both thinking you say this lady is your AUNTIE why were you having sexual intercourse anyway ...where are your parents? how old are you ?seems a totally far fetched story to me but if its the truth seek advice very fast you cannot force an abortion on a woman she should choose for herself

yir
01-29-2008, 06:09 PM
I'm not against abortion, but if you wanna go ahead and sleep with your aunt, then you will have your consequences. You should've used protection and don't tell her to have an abortion. It's her decision. And it was yours to be with her too.