Second date already, when do I make it official?

[chgriffin85]

So I went out with my friend last night and we had a great time together. Honestly, I really think I have a good one, when I went to pick her up I opened her door for her to get in and while I was going around she acutally reached over and opened my door for me, it was wierd at first because I've never had a girl do that for me but I see now she's very respectful and actually an upfront person. Like I said this is our second date in a few weeks and we like each other a lot, I'm waiting for the right moment make it exculsive between us. I'm curious as to how I can do that, how many more dates do we have to go on? Were learning more about each other as we talk over the phone, but when can I just up and tell her "I like you and you like me, so let's just make it official and become a couple"?

[k.j.]

next time you two go out.....tell her.

[lil cutie pie]

ask her out b4 its too late lol! but ask her out asap!!

[moxie_k64]

You should probably wait, I'd say until you've been dating a month... Any sooner than that and you may scare her. If the vibe is as good as you think it is, she most likely won't be dating anyone else as it is. By the way, I love love love the "I like you and you like me" thing. So cute!

[radio80flyer]

If she reached over to unlock or open your door, she is a keeper. It shows she has respect for you and isn't afraid to show it. As far as making it "official", I'd wait a bit. You don't want to rush a good thing and ruin what you have. Is it that important to make it "oficial" or just keep enjoying each other's company?

[running free]

well if you and her are having as much fun and liking her as much as you say, then she is probably feeling the same way. just tell her stright up how you feel..it will be ok.

[tc22]

I say take your time go on a few more dates. You can tell when the two of you get really close and start enjoying each others company. Then one day ask her how she feels about the two of you taking the friendship a little further and become a couple. I Just hope she doesn't make the same stupid mistake I did. But anyways go for it and wish you luck.