okay so im worried about sex? HELP!?

[Emily D]

I'm almost 15, and me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for a long time now. Everyone seems to be having sex and we're ready and we'll use a condom and all that and we won't do it because its "sexy" or because hes "getting some"but because we love each other a lot and he has so much compassion and respect for me AND my body. Is it still a smart decision to have sex then?

[krvawt88]

While I don't think you should because you're 15, that's up to you. Just make sure that's something you aren't going to regret doing and that you're ready. If you really want to do it, then maybe you should get some other type of protection just besides using a condom.

[Foohy_001]

There is no such thing as everyone. You would be surprised as to what people will lie about to feel important. He says he loves you and respects you but if he really loved you, he would wait. He has relief options in the meantime, besides do you see yourself with him this time next year? how would you feel explaining to your next boyfriend that there was someone else before him? You are 15 and you still have college to get through.