SHOULD I ACCEPT THE DATE? best answer wins?

[mz.2cute-4you]

Ok i have let go of every other boi who i wanted or who wanted me i am like hooked on phonix with this boy name jaquan he is so fine ohmigosh and he asked me on a date now me and him have been talkin for over three months and well he asked me and i quote "do u know how to boll?" i was shocked but i blurted out yes and i do then he said i also quote "well do u wanna go bolling with me?" i almost hung up on him to tell my mom but he is sweet and also so ya know i listened to ya and im holfind my virginity (yay me) he nkows imma virgin he doesn't smoke or drink (big plus for him) he is not a virgin but still he doesn't like gurls who smoke either which is yours truly but wat should i do should i accept his date or not?um first off i know how to spell u dumb fucks second off if ya asses wasn't so stuck up ya would know its called slang dumb fuckers

[Dude? Duuuude]

to go bowling...(i'm assuming that is what you mean) yah why not...what does bowing have to do with sex and virginity. i'm sooo confused.OMG...i just read "The Trueth"s message....HA!!! made me laugh out loud literally...my co-workers are looking at me odd now!

[L@ MON@]

Wut I Think Is Dat U Should Go Cause U Being Talking 2 Him And U Know Da Way He Is Allready So Is Not Dat Hard Just Try 2 Be Ur Self And Have Fun!!!=)

[Francesca]

first off let me tell yuh.IM happy for you to find a guy like him. hard to find a guy who doesnt smoke or drink or BOTH these days. and u BETTER say Yes because u never know he might not ask u again. GO bowling!! have fun!! and then see if this is the guy you want to keep talking to. and By the way i had an ex boyfriend names Jaquan toO. lol. good luck hun!!!

[mariamathis]

I am excited for ya!...The memories of the butterflies....sure do miss them sometimes...Now to answer your question.Bowling is a safe date, but how old are you? The entire purpose of dating is to find that significant other that you want to spend the rest of your life with. From the sounds of it, he has it going on so far. How will you get there? Will your parents drive you, does he drive? We need these sorts of details..My next suggestion is to be careful to not be left alone with him. You don't want to put yourself in a temptation that is too hard to resist? I also want to applaud you on your decision to remain a virgin. Best decision! You do have to be careful and take precautions to preserve that. It is not easy. Especially if you are dating a guy who has already had a taste of "candy" and (even though he likes you and you have been talking for a while) He naturally wants that from you. Don't get upset with him, it is nature, but be sure that he knows how you stand and also be sure that he does not drop little comments to you about changing your mind on that. I would love to hear what your decision is...pray about it before you make a final one! Also, if you are a follower of Jesus, please be sure he is too! It will make life a whole lot easier in the long run if you clarify that in the beginning with anyone you date. He might be a good kid, but for what reason is he being good,...because God said so, or because you want to hear it. Anyhow, best wishes and come back when you close out your answer to let us know what you decided.

[DontWorryBoutMe]

Well mz... from the story above it sure sounds like you really like this kid... I say go for it. What do you have to lose? Just be yourself and go with it. Bowling is not that hard... throw the ball and try to knock over the pins... Good luck Sweetheart!Cheers!