Why is my fiance ready to break up with me...

[jodiejerome]

...over my long distance 1 year contract job? Please I need serious inquires on this one.I have been with my girlfriend ,which is now my fiance' for going on four years.We have had our share of ups and downs,and I have compromised with her on things in order to hold on to my relationship.Recently I told a 1 year job to work in Kuwait in order to save money to buy us a home and finacially get us ahead when I get back.I have been broke before and I know that finaces can destroy a relationships easily. I have been here now for five months, and I have been sending money home to take care of her and her two kids,which are not mine,but I love them as if they were.Plus I get to come home for three weeks for my vacation.She is not working,but has a mininuim income to get by.The thing is where I stay back home in the states do not have an excellent job market and the cost of living is increasing.My plan was to save money to get us from out of the area where we stay and to have enough money to put down on a home in an area with better pay

[Lynda and Peter]

Mate id say either while your away she has found another person who hs been close by paying lots of interest while you are away or she just cant cope with u being away so long andmaybe she is just tryiung to get u to come home sooner or she maybe testing u to see what lengths u are willing to go for her it maybe an insecurity thing u jut never know maybe speak with her tell her your concerns and be open and honest with her communication is key to all relationships try iyt it will help an if doesnt maybe u may have to think of lettin g it all go sad enuf to say but if my wife went off to work away for two years id have to go see her more than 3wks a year thats just not enuf time for a relationship i understand what u are trying to do but u have also put major strain on your relationship maybe u should have taken em with u. cheers Pete

[love365ways]

no matter how many times i tell u the truth u don't accept it.there is no one else. if there was why would i be trying so hard to work things out, i would just end it. my hands are tied there is no getting through 2 u.i don't have to seek advice or should'nt even have started that i don't need outsiders to confirm what i already feel. if kuwait means that much to u, do u. but 4 me i need real love, that love u have no understanding of right now.all ur talk is small, all u do is point the blame else where. now u are showing me there is only one option, and that is for me to move on with my life alone. i tried it ur way,i waited faithfully and truthfully and the distance has killed the relationship, i still love as much as i always did.and i can say if u loved me u would come home find a job here and save ur relationship. if u love money and material things, and hate long term jobs, u would remain there, and risk and loose me. u choose. i have a right to enjoy what ever relationship i choose to be in. for 4 years i have been in love with u and accepting, supporting, being honest, faithfull, dealing with issues that u should not have put me through and if u apprechaite me as the lover of ur life u would save this relationship, and find work much closer to home. i said i would move and u could find work in the new city we agree to live in. my children is my job, higher my education to be able to hold a well paying job is my job for now, i have the same encome i would have if i was working with out the worries of daycare for 2 kids, all u have to do is find a job as u would have to do when u come back. it be different if u had to because u was still in the army, or if it promised u a career, but it don't that is not the only way to go and u know it its just what u want, the freedom, the space, the fast money and what ever else.