How can I end my porn addiction?

[Fatboy]

I have a porn addiction that has ruined my life and made me bisexual. I want to end it and end it now.It started off when I was quite young, bout 14/15. Lookin at straight porn on the internet and gradually noticed that I was turned on by rubber and sports. This all evolved, I think due to the fact that there was only gay pictures dedicated to my fetish. Anyways, now I spend a full night hunting down pictures of men and women thus destroying my life even more...HOW CAN I END THIS MADNESS AND JUST GO BACK TO WOMEN?!?!?!I have no money for therapy before anyone suggests it1. Can't give up the computer as my whole life depends on it basically - I work as a Computer Consultant/Programmer.2. I actually wouldn't go out with a guy in real life. I especially wouldn't take it up the ass.

[Ms. Logic]

watch lesbian porn? or just STOP watching it all together!

[Dewdrop S]

Get Rid Of Your Computer And Get A Life!!!

[b_becky2010]

well , i dont think its jus that simple.STOP WATCHING IT PERIOD !!!!!!!!look for a nice girl , and be yourself ..if it doesnt work out.. it doesnt work out...sorryy... hope all gets better

[$pOnGeBoB : )]

get a woman and a man to see which is better but only ur body knows what ot wants

[live.love.laugh]

just because you like men in porno doesnt mean you are attracted to them in real life. that can happen.so ask yourself would go out with a guy?like for real?

[ka3udr]

You will have to get professional help.

[kyarra nh]

Yeah I'm going with ragnerfind someone and this addiction should be over or go to counseling or something

[Someone's Baby]

Pray and seek medical professional help if you have to.

[iyamacog]

You can do anything you truly WANT to do........by putting your mind to it, and DO IT! If you're unable to, then you truly dont want to quit, bad enough.

[Elijah J]

First, try and taking a break from the Internet and if that don't work try going to a therapist.

[fiji2litre]

Claim that you are totally insane and get committed to an asylum. After that the help is free.

[phloyd87]

give up control of your computer, first off. to anyone you trust. then ... i dunno how to get back into women ... find a female partner i guess, and have sex. i dunno how to help you there.

[answerboy]

Find a nympho at the local porn aholics annonymous and marry her! Get help or you'll ne the next sicko on the news!

[viianenandrew]

Find a hobby outside the house, go to parties with friends, go to the gym or you can try going to a psychologist that is willing to help your situation.

[arbeiter]

I think you just like to get a lot of attention. You are not addicted to anything. An addicted person will not say that his addiction destroying his life like you said.

[lupelu]

Ask God for help and work harder. you need to keep your mind busy. Go back to school. Reed a good book. You can answer a lot of this questions every night. we need each other. that is way I am here. I need this group of people to ask questions and give some answers.

[montega610]

I feel your pain I also was viewing porn at a very young age like 13 or 14 even tho I seen a bunch of porn but I never enjoyed watching a man on man porn.....and around that age I started to question myself like dam when I like watching porn I only like watching the ones wit the guys that are real hung, and I was like damn does this make me gay........but then I would hang around my friends an I would never get aroused or anything an never felt attractted to any of em but I would see girls with there tight pants tight shirts an my worm would turn into a street pole .......but I sooner came to realize that I juss like watching that porn cuz it gives me more of a feel or vibe of what's going on .......so as far as you saying that it has ruined your life im not too sure about that cuz if you turned bisexeual maybe that's what your body is interested in an you just have to live with it......but I don't see how just porn alone can desroy your life.......maybe you have to much time on your hands...but hey I love watching porn.......its like cartoons to me when I was younger.....and my lifes great.....my advice to you would be juss to see if your attracted to men by going out to perhaps a gay club or bar......an see if you feel comfortable an if so........well there you have but keep your head up with the porn.....its not that bad for juss watching people have sex.......

[SiGendut]

Gwahahahahahahahahaha.....How can I end my porn addiction?i believe most of us here have the same problem with you (if it meant a normal straight porn)but the real problem is that you become a gay because too much watching porn ? how could it be ? we are watching porn here, but not become gay, maybe it's not because too much porn, but because you are a gay from the beginning, well... to become or not to become a gay is you yourself who decide, :D no thing's wrong to become a gay though,

[ysettleforavg]

Secrecy leads to isolation. Isolation leads to a sick character. A sick character leads to poor relationships. Become accountable to a trusting friend, one who you DECIDE to be totally honest with. Take control over the porn. Your idolizing it. What is in our thoughts and our hearts will eventually lead to behavior. Watch what you look at, it becomes an image of potential behavior. Right now, a relationship should be the least of your concerns. Focusing on yourself and how to get yourself emotionally healthy is more important. I respect you for realizing you have a problem and wanting to change. That is a step in the right direction. The "action" part and the "plan" is hard to adhere to. I hope you will find the strength and courage to begin a journey of healling from this addiction. You are in my prayers!