wigi-lou
01-14-2008, 11:00 PM
me and my boyfriend,Im 21,he'23 , we've been together since i was 16 and he was 18. so its 5 years now. We obviously used to have sex a few times a week for the first 2 years, but now more than ever we only really have sex once every two weeks, rarely even 3 weeks. When it does happen its great, really great.but it just seems its up to me to make the effort or it doesnt happen. we had to move back in with our own parents after living together for 2 years, so that hasnt helped. and we both cant afford to move out tho we both desperatly want to. My boyf has said that sex really isnt a big deal to him, because he loves me, and is (obviously) very comfertable with the way we are together. we are completely made for eachother, but our sex drives just dont match and i dont want him to take anything for it,as i have suggested before, but he doesnt want to.he's the most laid back person ever, so i dont want to pressure him as itll just make the problem worse.pls help, im so frustrated... :(