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Angel O
01-12-2008, 01:02 AM
...that I'm not taking our relationship seriously, but I am My girlfriend broke up with me, because she thinks that I'm not taking our relationship seriously, but I am, I really lover her, and will do anything for her. Is just that I haven been on a serious relationship before, and I dont have alot of experience with ladies, and I dont want to lose her. She told me to prove her that I'm serious and that I really her, that I have to earn it so that she gives me one more chance, I havent been on a situation like this before, and dont have alot of experience with ladies, so I dont know what to do do to prove her that I really love her and that I really mean it. Any ideas? I need help from both sides, ladies and guys.I already told her how I feel, she know this is new to me, but she been on relationships where she had been hurt, and she just doesnt wants to go through the same situation again, she doesnt want to get her, and I want to prove her that I'm playing around and that I really care about her
party.ova_here
01-12-2008, 11:38 AM
How are you makin it in life? You dont have ANY ideas on how to show her that you really care? You need to work on your problem solving skills.
kriddle
01-12-2008, 02:06 PM
does she know this is all new to you. sometimes i am hard on bf too because he does stupid stuff but its his first real relationship too. this is hard to answer because it may not be your fault it could be your gf. She may be looking for something specifically from you and isnt getting it - she could be selfish. If she knows this is your first serious relationship. all i can say is ask her why she feels the way she does... and then explain your side. She needs to be more understanding. It also depends on stuff your doing. You shoudl give examples in your question. Goodluck... but remember it might not be you.
baby g21
01-12-2008, 04:06 PM
She might have just made it up to get out of the relationship before things change or something. Sound like she needs some reassurance that she can trust you with her heart.