iv been in my relationship for 8months my...

[Taralynn B]

...boyfriend is very abusive why do i keep going back???? he is an ex gang member,drug user cheater in and out of jail his hole life, his dad was murderd in front of is kids,he always acuses me of cheating, yes i cheated twice each time he put me in the hospital with broken fractured ribs whiped me with my own belt. constintly calls me hateful ugly names when im with him and his family i have to keep my head to the floor i cant even talk to his mom when hes around whats wrong with me???????

[JEWELZ]

Why are you torturing yourself. There are other men out there who will love and appreciate you, get a grip. Don't you watch tv and see what happens in real live cases such as yours? They never end pretty. He sounds crazy and your just as crazy to deal with it. Run now and run fast if you want to walk out of this relationship with any self esteem left. You know this isn't right or good for you. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU, that is not love how he is treating you.

[naldo]

well maybe your a few cans short of a six pack . but anyway you need to get some help go to the cops look up shelter for abused women and run from him while you still can run or walk and the longer you wait the harder it will be for you to find someone better or not so violent good luck

[another journey]

You need to get domestic violence counseling. You have no self esteem, you believehis lies, and probably believe its all your fault. you deserve better, so stop denying yourself the oppurtunity to be happy. Get Help, it will only get worst

[mosaic]

You are among the many who don't have the self esteem to walk away. The longer you stay, the worse it will get. Let me tell you something.. and, I am speaking to YOU, GET AWAY.... hold your head up... talk to yourself and say "i will absolutely not ruin the ONE AND ONLY life I have for an abusive person like this". Get yourself into counsling, NA, AA, domestic shelter.. whatever is needed to get you on the right track because your life is out of control and will only get worse. It is up to you what you choose to do with your life. Don't live for the moment .. live for where you will be in two years.. or five years ..etc. Make a decision today that you will do all the right things to get yourself on track and that you will not stray from that... Get a calendar and mark a date where you will look back on what you acheived. PLEASE don't ignore this and end up in prison or dead. Please. Someone who doesn't even know you cares.

[ManWithThePlan]

You go back because you are insecure and probably dont think you can get anyone else to like you...so you put up with the abuse. And when some nice guy comes along that would probably treat you right you arent happy with him because he is too boring...maybe some women just like trauma in their lives....im affraid you are going to have to answer your own question or maybe get some counseling...good luck...

[Domanique M]

That is not right at all. Especially if you have kids.You should leave him. It might be tough on kids but if you have a boy and he grows up he might do the same thing from seeing this.Again. You should leave him.