should i break up with her? she lied.?

[alchan10]

my gf lied to me should i break up with her? last night we were talking online, i wanted to check if she was real and honest so i made another account and talked to her as in someone else. So therefore, she thought she was talking to 2 different people from 2 different states, when it was actually just me. I asked her, "Who are you talking to?" to my suprise, she lied and replied, "No one else, just you"....then i revealed everything. I told her it was a Honesty Test.....I guess I cant trust her anymore right? I broke up with her was it the right thing to do?Sorry for the misunderstanding, but it is not an Online GF...its a real life gf, just that we are both on break and in different countries at the moment....we can only reach each other online....thanks!

[Young1Money]

internet girlfriends are not good for anybodyyes,it was the right thing

[Alley t]

haha u cant base ur relationship on that..maybe you signed off before asking her..maybe she didnt want to tell you becasue you might get suss..maybe she just forgot..or many to ur other account she was tryna sound cool

[sun_is_shining]

You tested her, you got your answer. You made a decision, don't question it.

[jon44074]

you should break up,then get help.

[ravenfnord]

What you did was the wrong thing to do, she should have broken up with YOU. I'm guessing you have some major trust issues if you'd do something so cruel like that. Good luck in the future man.

[Maddie H]

You need to talk to her and tell her you need a completely honest relationship. Don't throw away something good over lies.

[lucylocket7258]

Well, I suppose it was the right thing at the moment but....you should have thought about it before you made a final decision. There are things we do in a moment of angry that we wouldn't otherwise do....Have you ever told something that wasn't true? I think most of us have at one time for another...so, forgiveness is a good thing....All I'm saying is to talk to her again and tell her how it made you feel. You never know, this might have been the one you were supposed to have spent the rest of your life with. I have another question, if you were sitting there on you pc and all of a sudden someone you didn't know, wanted to talk to you, would you just ignore them, or would you talk to them. You would have done the same thing she did. So...it is always best to wear their shoes for a while. . .

[horselady]

Well, you were very deceiving yourself, which isn't any better than her lying in my opinion. But even if she did just talk to another person on the internet, what would be the big deal? Sounds to me like you are very insecure. Maybe she really thinks it wouldnt be a big deal, and I do understand where she is coming from. She probably only said that because she knew you are insecure and might get upset over it if you knew the truth. But like I said, you can't forbid her to talk to other people, especially if it's just online. She has the freedom and the right to do that just as much as you do. If you love her, you will respect that.