how do i break up with my girl with out hurting...

[Vick G.]

...her feel and sounding like a jerk? i broke up with her about 2 week ago i made clear its over but she meseages me on my space and calls me about 24/7 wat do i do?

[Marc M]

Ignore her for now, and set her up with some new guys in a month or so. Encourage her friends to be nice to her, so it will take her mind off the breakup, and so she can get over it sooner.

[SemperWife]

block her from contacting you on myspace, that is nothing but trouble. and don't take her calls. If she doesn't get the hint, just change your phone number.

[Sarzii]

tell her that u d0nt want anything t0 d0 with her

[Geminat]

The Band-aid breakup quick and painless: better to look like a jerk than half some lovesick girl stalking you.

[berdz Force]

There is no way to break up to a girl without hurting her. Girls' feelings are brittle. unless she do not love you.

[sarahjaynexxx]

tell her theres no future between you, but you still want to be friends, but ask her nicely not to phone you so much, she seems to still like you very much so be careful what you say to her, she might get the wrong idea.

[Tyler K]

tell her that most people say "lets be friends", and that you dont want that... and tell her "leave me alone you psycho bitch"

[bangster]

Be straight and firm tell her its over and that you are a person who has priorities tell her that you have more important things to do and that her calling you is only giving you a hard time to cope up with your duties. Dont shout but say it straight. It will hurt her feelings and their is nothing you can do about it :I

[Hot Mama]

Tell her you don't want to be friends with her and it is over so you would appreciate it if she just left you alone.That's simple, direct and to the point. And it's not mean either.

[hohoho]

first don't lie to her that's the worst thing you can do just be honest with her and tell her how you feel and why you dint want to be with her it will hurt her feelings but at least your honest and she will respect that in the long run trust me i know OK lol

[KyuubiZX]

Well Since U made it clear to her stop associating with her block her on myspace and if u have a cellphone just block her on your phone 2 or u could answer her and just tell her u can just be friends and stop calling u so much and draw the line there.

[Charle's]

Don't think about her any more... the more you think about her the more you regret it...so be happy man...life goes on..just avoid her and after some days it will be ok again...Time heels everything....it is the greatest medicine...

[Lina the dragon]

1. Ignore2. Ignore3. Change phone nos. & construct a new "my space"4. Ask your Alien friends to abduct her to outer-spaceGood luck

[DALE H]

They say women always want what they can't have. What you need to do is make her not want you any more. If you ignore her or keep trying to talk to her you end up in a no-win situation.

[yen yen]

well.. didn't you make it clear to her what you feel for her? or what? like the exact point as to why you're breaking up? she messages you on myspace or calls you because there is something that isnt clear.. she somehow cant accept the fact that its over... hhmm... well.. you have to talk it out.. and frankly, she will cry.. a lot.. and that she cant get over it for now... i have been thru this like the guy broke up w/ me for a shallow reason.. but anyways.. its hard to get over it... and its taking me time to recover.... but somehow i managed to be okay... accepting the fact that its over.. well. this is what my ex did, he doesnt reply my emails and dont take calls... avoiding to interact.. and be seen.. honestly this hurts us more.... hopefully you will settle it properly..

[Logan L]

just stay friends with her still,act normal when she's around you.answer her text when you know she's in trouble.treat her with respect even thou she's not your girlfriend anymore.and later on she will move on knowing you are one of her greate friend .who knows she might be there to help you when you need someone.

[sickdaddy]

just bone her and jizz all over her face and say tthat it we are done