How can I get over the pain of this breakup?

[moxiegirl]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know this question is probably posted about 20x a day by people here, but I mean it....I'm 21. He was 26. We only dated for a month, but it still hurts 3 months later. I think about him. I dream about him. He's all distracted and into his own life....he lives in L.A. and is in a successful band. I went to see his band on Friday night and it sucked to see him up there all goodlooking and successful and glorious..... What's the point of dating anymore?

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The point of dating is to find the one for you. If you guys aren't together then you guys werent meant to be together. Maybe the reason you are still thinking about him is because you haven't forgiven yourself for the reason you guys arent together. Honey, I know you've heard this before but there are plenty more guys out there who would probably die to be with you. I'd suggest that you don't see anymore of his shows if you truly want to get over him. I mean you said that you've only date for a month. Just a month. There are people out there that have been together for years and they broke up. Now imagine how they must feel right now. Just know that it isnt the end of the world. Try to focus on things to better yourself. Get to know yourself and love yourself for who you are. You'll find someone one day. Just be glad that you didn't invest anything in this guy besides emotions. It will all pass and you will get over him. Trust me. you willGood luck

[Jeez]

Take it one step at a time, I know its not easy to breakUp with someone you love. However, You are still very young to loose hope and to throw a towel in the dating game. At 21 you will still find your Prince Charming. I've been in a similar situation where i had been involved with this guy for six years and it was damn hard getting over him!!! He had all the qualities i was looking for in a man. But in the long run i did get over him and my life is now back to normal. I feel for you shame. Good luck (:-

[cro]

You know what it is really a fact that we should accept that it is really painfull once you are in a breakup but although it hurts still we should be happy and strong most specially if you are the one decide to broke up with your bf.Then if you are the one well you stand by that decision,learn to move on.The only reason I think why you still think of him is just because you still love him and once in your life that guy become already a part of your life.When you say you dream about him,I think he is thinking of you because they said that once you dream of somebody that person is thinking of you.Now,stop seeing him in the sense that the more you saw him the more also you can't get over from that pain you said.Sorry but I'm confused about your last question,I dont know to whom you are going to date...Lastly we should remember that love accompanieds with goodbyes' when it ends.

[Peter A]

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a life, its not the end of the world. you chose to go and see him and his band and what did you expect for him to jump of stag into your arms and go down on one knee!!! your young and are experiencing what life is all about