GUYS are you ever not ready to be in a relationship...

[Flower27]

...with someone or just dont want one with that person? So, I met this guy about a month ago and we really hit it off. We would talk on the phone for hours at a time, go out on REAL dates (pay for me), and we spend a good amount of time together. He just got out of a two year relationship three months ago.He always calls when he says he will, cooks for me, takes me out etc. etc. Gets jealous when I am out and there is a possibility of other guys talking to me. YET, says hes not ready to be in a relationship (official) . I have told him thats fine but if he wants to still hang out with me I need to know that hes not persuing anyone else and he agreed. I told him it would be a waste of time for me otherwise and I would just need to move on. GUYS: is it possible that he is just used to having a girl around to call/ hang out with...and I am that girl? what are your own experiences?I do really like him, but is he worth waiting for or am I just wasting my time...?i went over last night to hang out and he sent me a text after i left thanking me for coming over and that i really relaxed him from being stressed out (non sexual).He also tried to make plans with me for the entire weekend...wondering what i was doing and if I wanted him to sleep over on saturday night. Good signs?THANKSI have been in a rebound relationship before and this feels different. I usually think of rebounds as mostly sexual...not as someone going out of their way to do things with you and be with you.

[Machine Gun Man]

You may just be a rebound for him. I can't really tell, but it's that or he is screwed up.Maybe he just needed someone to talk to and you were there for him. He may just think of you as a friend, or someone that he can talk to.

[cynical_dame]

it's official, he's retarded. Why spend all that money on a person and not want to persue a relationship.

[nAiRb]

sounds like he wants you for himself, but doesnt want any commitment in case someone else comes along for him. Hes just used to having a girl. You need to move on.

[deacon694]

he probubly scared to get in another relationship this soon so give it some time before moveing on. he just got out of a two year relationship three month ago so give it some time. if he didnt like you he wouldn't cook for you or pay fr your dinner while you were going out and eating.

[Proff Of Love]

Talk to him!!!!! I DON'T KNOW HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE TOLD PEOPLE THIS!!!!! JUST TALK TO HIM!!!!!Be kind and sincere, and ask him if that is the problem, if he just wants a girl who's a friend, or if he's just not ready for a real g/f.If he says he's not ready for a relationship, then tell him that it's fine and work with him.If he just want's a friend and you are okay with that then just talk and hang out with like FRIENDS.Either way you spin it, it's good. You either get a kind guy friend, or you get a blooming relationship!Just follow this to the letter and everything will work out fine!Good Luck =)