what is the most non-hurting method of...

[beautifulocean]

...breaking up? i want to break up because my boyfriend constantly flirts with my worst enemy and he knows that

[Denis B]

Just don't talk to him anymore. No phone calls, no text messages, no eye contact.......just act as if he isn't there.

[Happy-2]

You could try the method that has a long and venerated tradition: "It's not you, it's me."

[Logic316]

Whatever you do, just don't try the old "let's just be friends" line.

[Skaggy]

Think of 2-3 (you can have more, but only tell them 2-3) reasons you want to break up with him. Write them down on a small piece of paper and make sure you take it with you when you go to break up with him.Tell him you don't want to see him anymore, tell him why (this is why you brought the note, so you don't forget anything), tell him if he's allowed to contact you or not. Say good bye and you're a free woman again.Best way to break up with someone.

[runningwith_ash]

what a lame guy. just tell him "This whole 'us' thing isn't working. later!"

[thesoulcaged]

Tell him the truth and or let him get with that girl catch them and then break it off. that way its no skin off your back.or as Homer Simpson said...three words.I am gay