are all break-ups this bad?

[jehc34]

are all break-ups as terrible as mine always are? this is how all of my relationships have ended and i hate it:-guy tells me to "**** off" and have never talk to me again-guy becomes severely depressed-everyone hates me and i have to make new friends-i become a "liar, user, whore, and cold-hearted bitch"this is regardless of who breaks up with who.i don't ever want another relationship because this always happens. But is it supposed to??? How do you girls deal with all this??? I'm so unnassertive and timid it's like the worst experience ever. And trust me, I don't cheat or use people. I try to AVOID this more than ANYTHING. How come all the girls I know can have like 10 b/fs in a month and not get called whores or have any nasty rumors about them yet i can't ever break up with ONE, or survive being broken up with by one?

[platypus]

That has never happened to me! I honestly do not know why they call you that and not those that go from guy to guy. I am so sorry! If you have to make new friends, do it, they weren't your friends anyway. And pick better boyfriends... if they have to make such a scene and become "depressed" after breaking up with YOU and turning everyone against you, then they need to mature and grow up.

[enjeygotstyle]

Oh im so sorry about that, its really frustrating..But I had one experience like yours. and until now it breaks my heart remembering those times, after all i did great between us, we've been almost 3 years. At our 2nd year relationship, he started acting different than when we were dating. He always starts a fight about so little things you wuldnt expect to be a cause of a fight. Damn so hard, i had to make it up to him and say sorry though it was his fault. sumtyms i ended up crying and begging for 4rgvnes though there's nothing to be 4rgven. Then he started calling me, B*TCH! F**k You! Sh*T! Whore. THAT WAS SO SICK right...but i gave him 2nd chance because i love him so much, then he did it again again..Unitl I got So furious and all i could curse him to death. Clearly i was such a dumb, but im over it anyway, but until now he's asking for chances. I realized and learned so much from him..but i HATE him now..BREAK-Ups are always bad. But Guyz like these are Far more worst than bad. they're CRAZY!