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Roxana E
01-10-2008, 12:06 PM
im going out with a wonderful guy and everything is great when we see each other but he lives in mexico and i live in the U.S. We keep in touch every day but i feel that our realationship will come to an end, i dont want it to. We've been going out for a year now and i really love him. what can i do?

Soonerfootball
01-10-2008, 03:12 PM
communicate in some fashion atleast once a day. Try getting a webcam and talking on there; go on a "web date" (sounds corny i guess) and like have dinner. Honesty is also very important

Goldfinch
01-10-2008, 04:00 PM
I've been there, and it's really hard. Eventually it will feel like you're dating your imaginary friend and at that point you know you either have to be together or make it end. Not everything in life has a fairytale solution, I'm sorry to say.

Forsakendoll©
01-10-2008, 06:13 PM
If you're still in school, finish school first. After that you'll have loads of opportunities to be with him in the same place in the future, same goes for him. I'm in a LongDR too (but Mine's more harsh since we're in different countries now *sob.) BUT we keep in touch everyday too and he's really a great guy. Communication is really a must. He'll come home this year though so waiting for him aint that all bad.Anyway, how do you guys meet? Can you give us more details? Do you see each other often?

Sweetest G
01-10-2008, 07:05 PM
What to do is; live for the moment. I am currently in a long distant relationship and it has it's ups and downs.We have been with each other for a year now and out of the year 4 months of it has been long distant because he is in the Army.What makes it worth it is when we do see each other I feel we grow stronger because the time were not together we make up for it and believe it or not our relationship has been so much more to look forward to when we do see each other.You really have to have a lot of faith and trust and it makes it more exciting to know you have something to look forward to when the time comes and you plan to see each other it's the best feeling.

Infinityxkat
01-10-2008, 10:12 PM
Ooh, I'm in one myself. but it's LosAngeles to SanDiego.I haven't seen him in over a year already. But anyway.Don't fret. If he loves you & you love him, then you shouldn't worry about it coming to an end.LOVE KNOWS NO DISTANCE. So [: Just do your best at keeping it at a good relationship right now. Someday, you will be together.