Does this strange guy that wants to be my slave have a

[H H]

mental problem?What should I do? ive been talking to this guy online for 3 years, at first i didn' like him, but last year while my bf was cheating on me, i let him call me and we became too close.The strange thing he wants to do all the time is that we send each other photos and then we rate them, who gets a better score is the winner, but before we must try to make each other feel bad by words(i.e u r gonna lose, u r nothing) and then when he loses he wants me to call him a slave...ok, i know some people are into this bdsm stuff but he is more weird than that, i think.He claims he needs me and swears he isnt lying to me, yet he says he should fighthis addiction to me..sometimes he doesnt show up for weeks, but he always returns, it makes me furious, i want to forget this freak, but i cant, in fact ive realized im quite addicted to him myself, but mostly i hate his stupid games, but at the same time i look up to him, he is highly intelligent, clever, just as i would want to be.idont want to lose him.im crazy.help?

[sharmel]

Are you serious? You've got yourself one sick puppy there, lady. In your place, I wouldn't just sever all contact with this potentially dangerous weirdo, I'd have my whole computer decontaminated.

[absentskunk]

he sounds like a nutjob... i would stay away from anyone that wants me to call them "slave". doesent sounds like he's into bdsm, and even if he was... still weird. so unless youre into that, id stay away

[kokopelli]

There are too many people in this world who do not have this problem for you to settle on one that is messed up and a potential basket case. If you start off with a wack job from the beginning it may only get worse once you really get to know him, and he could turn out to be a child molester or serial killer and you do not need that. It never hurts to stay in the more normal range, and normal does not mean hung-up and inhibited, either. You just don't need to start at the wacked end of the scale.

[steff0317]

That seems very, very strange..if it was me, I'd be freaked out..I can't give you any advice though, seeing as I've never been in that situation.