Men, dating and breaking dates.........?

[janbebe42]

Ihave been dating this man for 2 months on and off. Started off just wonderful for first few weeks. Since xmas he hardly has called me. I was out of town for 6 days too. Went to his place on Dec 27th evening- heard a woman there. was upset and left him a note! He did not call or come by to talk. Went over again 5 days later- he seemed fine again. Asked about the woman,he said it was a couple visiting him for the weekend. I also noted lady's lip gloss in the bathroom! he said it was hers. i stayed overnight. He asked me to come over the next evening to be with him and hang out. Also to cook a dinner. I came by he was out. I had NO call since and its 4 days later! He is off and on like a darn light switch. When I last saw him he gave me the biggest hug and kiss I ever saw, then he rui ns the plans.What should I do, I really care for him. Note he works 16 hrs a day usually 7 days a week!

[Jesse J]

sounds like you are not that important to him, definitely not a priority, regardless of how much he works, when someone is intersted he or she will find a way to contact the other person.

[PhotoJim]

If he can't be polite enough to tell you what's going on, I think you have your answer. He's using you for sex and doesn't care all that much about you.If a man cares about you, it'll be obvious. He'll be considerate. This man is not being considerate.