is my relationship with my boyfriend healthy?

[ohboyshay]

me and my bf have been together for 15 months and weve had our issues. we both had very bad last relationships so we know we both have problems. i have gotten past mine but he hasnt he doesnt trust me but i dont think i have done anything to make him not trust me. he wont let me go out and hang out with him and his friends but a year ago that is all we did and i had so much fun. i did snoop on his myspace and i really wish i hadnt but i saw that he was emailing a few other girls and one of them wrote that she really wishes she got to see him that weekend and he said oh well maybe next and that really hurt. i didnt tell him i looked cuz i knew he would never trust me again. my main thing is that he wont even email me cuz he says he hates emailing people and never does it and im not even allowed on my myspace.i dont want to end it but i need help to figure out a way to talk about my feelings without upsetting him. i love him so mcuh i just dont know how to fix all the things that r wrong

[NoRA_008]

Trust is a big part in a relationship if he cant trust you ho wcan you trust him And for the myspace thing wow thats crazy he ha s1 and you dont think about it

[daze]

Not healthy at all. He's controlling you and you feel the need to snoop. Not good at all.

[normanbates]

i hate when people use the excuse i had a bad relationship in the past so its hard for me to trust people. F that... when u get in a new relationship its all new so u need to open up. so what if u get hurt again thats life get over it and do it again. Jealous people also suck. u might as well be locked away in a box while the other person goes out how fair is that. get out of this realtionship its more stress than u need

[Questionis]

Thing is you can't 'fix' things on your own. Both of you would have to be willing to resolve your issues of trust and control.I don't see why you should allow him to tell you you aren't allowed on myspace when he has an account.Yes i think you have an unhealthy relationship. I understand you love him but if you don't resolve alot of these big issues things will continue to go down hill.Tell him you have alot of concerns and try to talk things through in a mature manner and if he doesn't admit there are problems you may have to give up your relationship.