what shall ido ? i'm 59 my wife left and have...

[rodgris]

...no relationship / was married for 30 yrs.she stays w/daughter ??

[Ugga Ugga]

do you know WHY? find out. go to counseling. do something. get your butt in gear.

[Just Some Girl]

Why is it that there was no relationship between you and your wife? Was it like this before she left or has it just happened since she left?Sometimes when we're together for a long time, it's easy to take each other for granted. We think that if there are problems, we can always work them out later because we'll be together forever. And then one day one of us leaves and we realize we can't just ignore our differences.Try to find out what's going on in her mind and why she left exactly. If there is anything that you guys can do to work things out, do it.

[meera n]

So you mean,its been 30yrs since your wife left you,she had no relationship or never married again & she is staying with the daughter(yours & hers) & you dont know what to do?,is that what you mean.It sounds like you are missing her very much & you want to reconcile with her,if that's the case then i think you must talk to a lawyer,only he can help you & suggest you or if you still have her contact number with you then call her & talk to her.

[Sweet Suzy 777!]

If she divorced you, join a singles club for over 50's, if you're really looking for another relationship. Or if you're just looking for trouble and you have a lot of property and money go on line. A lot of young bimbo's would go for it, if they think you have a lot of money. Sorry, but it is true. The young bimbo's don't care how old you are, just what they think they can get off you.