Something just doesnt feel right? Is our

[kassi]

relationship normal? We have just started dating and, Im not sure if we are moving too fast or he is getting really serious really quickly. Its only been a month and he wants to know when im off, what im doing all the time. He seems to be planning his life around me now and its kinda creepy. I know he hasnt been in a real relationship in a long time but it seems like he is obsessing over me. I dont know what to do exactly

[Paola G]

That is definately not normal behavior. It is clingy, needy, and can be distrust. What you need to do is take some time to take him to a quiet, but public place to talk this out. (sorry don't mean to scare you, but a very clingy person might freak out a bit if they think you're pushing them away). There are two approaches to this: Jokingly or Serious and Straight forward.Jokingly:When you two are laughing about stuff, jokingly bring up that he's on you like velcro, stuck on your every move. orLaughing say "so are you going to loosen my chain so I can go get us a cup of coffee (drink, use the bathroom, ect..)Serious and Straightforward:Tell him that you feel smothered and you don't like him planning his life around you and that you feel that it is wrong.If you still want to date him, follow up with, so in the future I would appreciate it if you didn't (whatever's bothering you the most).**If things go awry, you can have a friend call you in the middle of it. If it's going great, tell her you can't come. If not, tell him you have to leave immediately to be with your friend. I wish you the best of luck and lots of courage.