I've realized that I'm more interested in sex than...

[cbrown3211]

...an actual relationship with a girl. Help? Am I terrible I'm a 20 yo guy and honestly not really interested in having a relationship with a girl. I'm shy/introverted, and talking to girls and sharing your "feelings" with them doesn't sound that interesting to me. I've noticed I don't really like people.Is there something wrong with me? Just saying that makes me feel terrible. But I'm worried it might be true.How do I change it? I'm not very outgoing, never have been. All the dates and talking just doesn't appeal to me. Help?

[horsegirl]

ummmm YUP!!! what girl would want to be with you if you didnt care about them!

[warrior]

As long as you are straight up about it to whoever you sleeping with it's ok. Just don't string someone along and lie to them.

[twistedtoad03]

You're not Horrible your male and a 20 year old male at that. I would say at least be careful if all you want is sex. And maybe one day you'll find a relationship with someone when you least exspect it. Just be respectful and not pushy on your sexual conquests and you'll be alright.

[slimdogg102]

Nah you sound like almost every guy out there..

[bellanelson194]

just go to a girl that you like and tell her that you like her and tell her that u arent that talkative to other people but i can change if you help me while we are going out or something like that!!!

[edrogers55]

You don't change, you're normal. I would try to find an activity I enjoyed (college theater perhaps) where you will have the opportunity to socialize. Whatever social activity you enjoy, there's bound to be a female who enjoys it as well. From there, nature will take it's course. Good luck!

[commoncents]

So you want to drive the car, but not pay for it? Go out with friends in groups if you are having trouble talking to girls. It's not healthy to be an introvert. Develop some interest that you can do with other people. You might need some counseling. You might have a distorted view of the female species, If you have spent to much time with porn your view of woman might be as a sex object and not someone to love and that loves you. Really if you put some effort into it you might find that woman are human beings also...just different from men.