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Faithful
01-07-2008, 10:12 PM
...my parents still do not know im sure he is the one what do i do?

yogurt777
01-08-2008, 01:00 AM
Well, if you have been hiding the relationship for two years, you need to come clean with your parents. Tell them all about the guy you have met and have been dating for two years and that you would like them to meet him. Tell them that you did not tell them about him, b/c you did not want to tell them until you were sure he was the one etc. Don't tell them that he is of another ethnic background (it should not matter right?) and let them find out when they meet him. Unless you know they are racist in thinking about stuff like that. If you don't tell them, then they will be forced to confront their feelings when they find out he is not what they thought he was. You can then say "well, you like him well enough when you "thought" he was (insert ethnicity here). What difference does it make that he is (insert ethnicity here)? Isn't that how you brought me up (if that is what they did) to believe that everyone is equal etc..."Good luck.