Does this guy have a mental problem or am I...

[day dreamer]

...overreacting? I made friends with this guy a yr ago in school.Kept in touch.Invited me on a trip with him but i couldntWe moved to different cities...far apartKept in touch again & chattedHe visited me..was like a bit more than friendsHe contacted me & invited me to visit him if everi wanted..told him I would but he's not often theredue to work commitmentsNxt time we spoke he invited me to visit him...told him i wouldlove to when i get time off.Is this a bit unstable?

[pauline s]

that is how things go, life takes over, but true friends understand that ,

[jk_thegooner]

He has someone where he lives.Player!

[+++LP+++]

yes i think your are a bit confused about the whole situation because i certainly am, just talk to him properly and see what happpens

[Andy K]

You or him? He invited U on a trip, but U couldn't (go, I;m guessing), U kept in touch over time eventhough you moved far apart from each other. U became more than friends (my emphasis), and he invited U again & yet again. I think you are overreacting. Do U have a good relationship now? Is the realtionship better now that U became more than friends? You communicate with each other, which is a big plus theses days. But it seems U keep putting him off. Ask yourself: Do U want to date him/see him again, or not?