i have a relationship with a married...

[loveseeker]

...guy.. what am i suppose to do? i ddnt know hes a married guy, and now he told me everything now.. that he is a married guy and has a mistress aside from me... im scared coz i still really dont know if im pregnant or not.. im scared what am i suppose do to do now??? i want my normal life back.. my life now is like a hell.. im scared.. help me...

[ctelly22]

See if you are pregnant. If so either keep it or have an abortion. Either way you need to stop sleeping with him, maybe consider informing his wife.

[true -woman]

Baby let go, ask for forgiveness, and then move on. If you're pregnant, then do what is best for you. Don't give his feelings another thought, because he doesn't deserve it. Start thinking of you and only you. Find out if you are in fact pregnant ASAP. The sooner you know, the sooner you can decide your next move. GOOD LUCK HONEY! and rememeber none of this is your fault. Decite comes in all forms, unforunately yours came like this. Pick your head up, because trouble doesn't last always!

[Roberta H]

first of all don't see him anymore, go to the doctor for a pregnancy test, if you are let him know ( and you know he'll say it's not his) and once the baby is here sue him for child support. this will also let the wife know what kind of jerk she's married to. your local friend of the court or family court will help you prove paternity and go after child support. find someone who isn't already taken. i'm sure he gave signs that he was married but you didn't pick up on them.

[bob08886]

Step one: verify the pregnancy. I know you're scared, but you have to know the answer. Hopefully you"re not!! It will make your life just a little bit better. If you are prgnant, you have some serious soul searching to do. No one can tell you what to do, it's a decision you will have to make. Step two: in the future, use protection!! We all get caught in the moment--Either way you must leave the shmuck!!!!!