Relationship advice! Am becoming involved

[frosty_taz]

with a girl living a great distance away!? As I am really into her, but the distance is so massive (another conuntry), am not entirely certain of what may come of this relationship as it is-really into her, moreso than anyone that I have been interested in some time-but timing and finances couldn't be more precarious - both of us have jobs that make us miss one another when we're free-and it's entirely too expensive for more than 2/3 physical meetings this year! Still we're on the phone almost nonstop and I can't think of my day without her! Am I insane?! Or are we insane to continue?!!!Hope you can help!

[Hermes711]

Attraction is not a choice, and love is just another version of attraction mixed with obsession. To be completely honest, I wouldn't spend too much money on this girl, but you should continue talking to her given it's not eating your phone card or anything like that.--

[Godshot]

In some ways your relationship is unique, in that it's a long distance relationship. Interstingly though, it's the same as all relationships. When we decide to get serious, commit to exclusively seeing just that one person it's always a big choice... and often many sacrifices are made to come together and spend the rest of your lives together.So, what it comes down to is what are you each willing to do to be together? If it's what you each really want then you can and will find a way to make it happen.As a professional relationship therapist I've worked with many who began their relationships long-distance and made it work. There's even a great book written by a couple who did this. It's called "Intellectual Foreplay" You should check it out.Ultimately it will all boil down to a decision. A giant decision. Love is a risky thing, but if it's strong enough it can move mountains. Good luck!

[Jackee1]

Nice post...
There's a pretty easy process you can use to get your ex back...people behave in certain ways so closely that there's almost a science to it, and performing certain actions can be almost guaranteed to achieve specific results. Simply put, people just work a certain way...and you can use that to close the gaps between you and the one you love, and get your life back on track with him or her.That's why The Magic of Making Up was created.
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[TVman]

That's still no excuse to just promote things without being upfront first, or requesting permission, whatever the site does.