im in a gay relationship and im very good looking but...

[Marco Mac]

...me and my guy dont have sex.? i really like him and dont wanna cheat what should i do?

[djdraino]

well if you dont do anything with him them it probably is not a real thing for you and i would be honest with him and try persuing women to see if you really are gay or not

[triviatm]

Find out why he doesn't want to do it. If he hasn't been in a gay relationship before, he may be nervous, and you'll just need to be patient and wait until he's ready. Or he may be waiting for YOU to make the first move.The only way to find out why is to talk about it.

[Eissa E]

Its hard to give you a good answer to your question without knowing more details about the relationship. I would like to know how long have you been together, less or no sex is normal in decade old relationships. On the other hand it is a fact that when couples have sex less than twice a month it can have a negative effect on the relationship. Also I am wondering what is preventing the sexual attraction between you two. Maybe your relationship is more of a mutual friendship.

[askthebachelor]

There is not a lot of information here to go on so I am going to have to go with what you've provided.The way you ask this question tells me that you are looking at your partner for the source of this problem. I encourage you to look inside yourself to see what you are doing to create the situation you are in. Here are a couple of suggestions. Remember, it takes two to tango so let's start with you.One place to look is what is satisfying you in this relationship. Meaning, you are staying in it for a reason. Perhaps you are choosing safety and comfort over intimacy, passion and risk. Look to see if this pattern of choosing safety shows up elsewhere in your life. If it does, this might be a good sign that this is the case. If so, think about why you make this choice and see if you can let go and make a different choice.Another place to look is Incomplete communication. Do you and your partner talk about this? Or, is it taboo and un-discussed? If it is un-discussed, I bet there are other topics you don't talk about. What's up with that? What are you scared of saying or hearing? You might be surprised by this but the most powerful aphrodisiac is the truth. It might hurt at first but once the dust clears watch out.Another part of incomplete communication is not allowing your partner to say what they need to say to you. Do people tell you what they really think or do they withhold? If they withhold what is it about you that causes this? I get it shows up elsewhere in your life as well.Finally, why not just break up and move on? What's up with the drama? Make a decision, take action and move on.Hope some or all of this helps.ATB