Help me, I'm an idiot and I can't stop...

[Cassiesmum]

...stressing about my fertility!? I have a feeling I am not fertile and it's just so stupid, I have no reason to believe this but I can't get over it! I think its from reading all the time about people trying for so long to conceive and I am just really impatient and don't want it to take so long (as I am sure nobody does) See I am trying to get pregnant asap to fit it around my schedule lol This is my first full cycle of trying so I don't have a reason to doubt my fertility, my friends get pregnant on first try, I am only 22 and I have a 2 year old daughter so age isn't a problem. I am so scared of being disappointed if I dont get pregnant this month because if it doesnt happen right away I just know I am going to start stressing that something is wrong. Please tell me that I can get pregnant first try like my friends, I really don't want to wait 6 months, I only have 2 more years off work and I want to spend as much of it as possible raising my kids myself

[worldpeace]

if you already have a dauhter, there is no way your are not fertile!so dont worry. im sure your second child will arrive when you least expect it.i've been trying toconceive myself, for 4 years now with no luck.but u already have one, so dont worry, you arenot infertile.good luck to u.

[zhar]

Yup you are not infertile. There is nothing to stressed about.
Plan things carefully, kids are a big responsibility, it is not like a buying a dress or shoes.
If you are not in a right state of mind with the kids, they won't be too.

[Mommy8/6/08]

aww first off at least TRY to relax ( i know how hard it is!!!) i too felt i would be infertile, especially when i was on BCP for 6 years and the doctor told me i had a tilted uterus and it would be hard to conceive. I'm 23 and when my fiance and i decided to try for a baby i stopped the pill and started taking my temps every morning. To my surprise i ovulated on time so i knew i must at least be fertile, then got worried that i even if i released an egg i still might not get pregnant. To my surprise 10 DPO i took a test and got a BFP!!! I am now 8 weeks with my first! So since you already have a daughter. and you are still young. You shouldnt have a problem conceiving again! Try the temp method cause it will atleast let you know when you ovulate and when you are fertile. But i think you'll be ok. I know its hard not to stress but try your best and make your baby making fun (you'll be so much happier knowing you conceived a child with love and not stress!!!) Best of luck and baby dust!oh and also...you should feel blessed that you have a daughter. Think of all the woman who have no children and still having difficulty conceiving. My heart goes out to them...

[♥ Becca ♥]

Being stressed about getting pregnant will definitely affect you from getting pregnant! I am sure that alot of people have already said that - so relax and don't let it get you stressed if it doesn't happen right away. Just have fun trying!

[rclowdis]

I doubt your are not fertile. It can take a healthy couple even up to a year to conceive. I know thats not what you want to hear. Just relax and have fun with it. It is hard to get pregnant when you are stressing about it. Good luck and lots of baby dust!!