girls dad on life support with lung cancer,

[averagejoe]

wots a guy to do? my fiances father is critically ill on life support, with lung cancer, he's on a ventilator to help him breath so i guess he's basically gone. has been like this for about 3 months, the docs asked the fam to switch off the life support sometime ago but i think they cant let go, understandable. we are a long term relationship and its complicated i cant visit her plus her fam have gone into shut down mode and cut everbody off. am supporting her by just being ther for everytime she comes out of the hosp to text me, which is like every few weeks, she been living at the hospital for about 3 months now and shes too scared to leave her dads side in case it happens and she aint ther. i support her but she hasnt called me for time, and ive given up my life for her and she says that i am her life and the reason shes living right now,, i love her so much, any advice how this will turn out? and wot should i do...?

[Spec]

Be there for her now and keep at it. She's being beat down emotionally at the loss of her father. She can't afford to lose you too. Do this for her and she'll repay you tenfold.

[~Nana~]

I think you should just hang in there, shes having a hard time with this and the last thing she wants to hear is that the love of her life is gone..When she does come home, hold her, love her..Shes going to need it...Dont worry..your relationship (I believe) will be much more stronger when she knows that there will always be someone there when she has downfalls such as this one...Take care!! By the way this almost made me cry