I get Jealous of pregnant teens am I

[Mrs. Moore]

crazy??? Okay, about a year ago I got pregnant by my boyfriend of now a year, unfortunately I had a miscarriage in like the 2nd month and was very hurt about it because I thought "cool I'm about to be a mommy! Something I always dreamed of" shortly after one of my friends got pregnant by my best friends boyfriend WHILE THEY WERE GOING OUT!!! So they are no longer friends. I feel like she totally copied me in the whole thing and put myspace pictures up of her belly and everything just like I was going to do. Everytime I see them I get jealous because I think "she copied me! That coulda been me!!!" Am I crazy? Or is this normal for a girl who lost her first and only child?

[Steve is cool]

You're really crazy. In a couple of years when your away at college, look back at that myspace page and giggle.

[Mitch M]

I'm sure your friend didn't get pregnant just because you did, and no point getting paranoid over something you 'were' going to do..Seeing as the situation you've been in, i'd say it's normal, but no real need to be jealous.=)

[Danny Luis]

no she didnt copy you. try to enjoy life with out a baby for a while. or better yet, go to a psychiatrist, that helps.

[beaniebabez]

You are not crazy,i lost my child last month and i want a baby more than anything.I get jealous myself.

[[Simply.. me]]

It's normal to feel bad after having a miscarriage.. it kind of makes you feel like a failure as a mother. But, no.. there is no reason to be jealous of another pregnant teen. It's probably the worst possible time in your life to get pregnant. When you're a teen, you're pretty much still a kid yourself, and you're nowhere near ready to raise one. Wait until you're married and older, if you really care about what'll be in your child's best interest.

[Billy Joe Bob]

It could be normal, I've never had a kid or gotten anyone pregnant so I wouldn't know. Well at least your life will be a little easier than theirs.You can go to college and get a good job, and live life without the burden of a kid way easier now. I am sorry for your loss though. I hope you get better soon.

[Aryeh]

Yes you are. "Cool"? You sound about 12 years old. Do you actually think that you are mature enough to take care of a child? "she totally copied me"? You definitely have issues to resolve before you get pregnant again.

[rayvonti]

Normal..jut get on with your life and when it is right you will get pregnant again!

[arklatexrat]

I'm sure it was hard to miscarry, but it could have been a blessing in disguise. Regardless of how girls glamorize and flaunt teen pregnancy these days, it isn't easy or fun and really isn't something to be desired.Wait until you are older, married, settled, and really ready to be a mom. Don't see it as something fun to get attention for you, see it as the huge responsibility that it is to bring a child into this world and love it and care for it to adulthood. It is the hardest job in the world and not something to be taken lightly.

[Lorraine]

You my dear are CRAZY....how old are you??

[MOOCHY]

I am really sorry you lost your first child but you are young and have your whole life ahed of you, dont rush it. It may seem like fun and cute but babys are a lot of work. Not to mention you are not even married you should bring a baby into a good enviroment with a family and stability. Be young have fun and while that girl is at home with a baby you can live your life. Take it slow!

[Caitlyn]

I don't think you're crazy. You're young yes.. But that still doesn't mask the fact that you lost -your- child. I believe it is perfectly normal to feel the jelousy of your best friend having a baby when you lost yours. It doesn't make sense to you. You're most likely thinking " Why does she get to have a baby when I can't...?"I'm sorry for your loss. It is never easy to lose a baby. I have never expirenced this type of hurt and can't imagine going thru it. You're a brave young woman. But sometimes god has his own plans. Everyone is ment for great things. You just have to figure out what it is. Good luck and god bless.

[Aileen S]

it doesnt sound like your friend planned this pregnancy, so i dont think she has copied you. just because she is posting photos of her belly on myspace doesnt mean that down the track you cant do the same. your feelings stem from the fact that you think you failed at something she is doing. you didnt fail, miscarriages usually occur because there is something wrong with the baby., or the mothers health. i once miscarried because i was under a lot of stress.

[ilovepink]

don't worry girl your not crazy ok?? :)...the reason for that is because you are dreaming of having your own and suddenly out of no where, it was taken away from you, which in my point of view (eventhough i haven't got pregnant) truly hurts, an example would be uhmmm, if you lost your most precious customized necklace given by your great-grand-mother, you would certainly cry right??? it is also what is happening with you right now, and it is definitely not what you are thinking that you've gone crazy or what so ever..soo don't worry k??? ...and another thing don't be so much jealous with your friend to the point that both of you would get into a huge fight, you just have to wait for the right time again of you having your own baby...k??goodluck!!!

[macias_sd]

well maybe you should get pregnant but really take care of your self and don't be jealous... you got a whole life ahead of you

[varvava]

no i really think its normal.... she got something you were so close to having and then you lost it, so now you're jelous of her. I would be jelous too, and mad, and sad. so yea you definitly aint crazy....

[Doug B]

you may just want to talk out your jealousy with your friend that got pregnant and tell her how you feel and you may become unjealous.

[hunny-bunny]

Its normal to be upset!!!!!