I had an abortion and now I feel...

[feb21]

...horrible............? I was raped about 7 months ago during a robbery at my job. I got pregnant as a result of it. I had an abortion because at the time I thought it was the best thing to do. Now I cry about it everyday and I am still a victim to him because I cant get past what I did as a result of his horrible act. Please give me some suggestions on how to deal with life after abortionmichele thank you so much for putting it that way i really needed to hear that I know god will eventually dry my tears. thank you from the bottom of my heart

[Nessaja]

i cant begin to understand how you feel, i know that things that we cant get out of our minds only make it worse by keeping inside. please write how you feel get some help and start to talk about it, to me you did the right thing and it was the only thing you could do, it keep talking and writing about it and it should get easyer.

[beiia_dolce]

You should not be letting him victimize you still. He should be dead.This may sound like a harsh answer, but here is how I look at it.1.having his baby is a reminder for your life of him2. he obviously has serious issues that could be passed onto your children3. people like him do not deserve the chance to create life and pass their horrible genes on in evolution4. another reason they shouldnt have the right to create life is that his morals shouldnt be passed on either.Bottom line, you did what you thought was right.As for dealing with thinking about abortion, you were humane. I just saw in the news today about 2 cases of where newborns were dumped in dumpsters to die and suffer.