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ziggie44134
12-15-2007, 10:05 PM
...cancer, and she left me!? i told my girlfriend this and she told me to leave after, and showng me the door she sends me nasty hurtful e-mail. Like why?

Stepherz
12-16-2007, 04:00 AM
Forget her she is a big loser! I bet that there are many other girls out there for you. Don't worry about her!! Do you want me to kick her butt?

tami p
12-16-2007, 12:43 PM
some people have funny ways of dealing with hurtful things. she is hurt i believe, so ignore the emails and she will come back to you and explain why she felt the need to treat you like that.

onlyshinyjules
12-16-2007, 09:55 PM
sorry to hear that. she seems selfish. no much a gf to just leave you...

waterfiend7494
12-17-2007, 03:37 AM
your girl may come to realize shes f@#%! up you have nothing to do with your diagnosis it between you and god if thats what you beleive. your attitude will be 90% the battle . enjoy life live love and be happy your girl is probably been hit really hard by the news and may be very scared of "what if ?" or shes not the one to stand by you

xcrazi3inlove
12-17-2007, 05:49 AM
well i dont know how long youve been together. but she was probably scared and didnt know what to do , some people tend to get very upset and depressed over things like that , but some take there emotions out in anger, im sure she cares about you , or maybe shes lost someone in the past to cancer and just wanted to walk out of your life now so that she doesnt have to be there for the results, if you really care about her and she really cares about you , give her some time to think.... and cool down a bit , than try talking to her more about it ... if shes still being rude, than shes just a cold hearted person , and im sure theres better people in your life other than her. but good luck with everything and hope things workout for you

hippooooo
12-18-2007, 12:04 PM
Your girlfriend is a wimp. Sorry to say it, but it's true. This happened to my friend before. Her boyfriend was scared that he would get cancer if she came near him, so he left her. It's stupid, because you cannot get cancer that way. There is NO way you can get cancer by standing next to someone. So, your girlfriend is either really scared that you'll drop dead next to her or you'll give her cancer.

palmyrafan
12-18-2007, 07:01 PM
Because in her eyes you are "damaged goods". She does not have room in her heart for compassion and love and whether or not you know it, you are much better off without her. I have brain cancer and I booted all the idiots and a**holes to the curb because they "didn't get it" and were cruel.Mark her email as spam and count your blessings that you didn't marry her. I'm sorry that you have lung cancer and that you are being treated cruelly. Those people are not worth our time and effort. Please focus on positive people who do want to spend time with you and do value you and what you still have to offer.I'll keep you in my prayers.