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miZZme
12-13-2007, 09:25 AM
days?? sort of ong question here...? well my husband is 30 no license, no car, lives with me on and of his mom and sister on and off. hes been picked up atleast 6 times in the past 2 years for driving under suspension, caught with marijuana atleast 5 times in the past 2 years, ive called the police on him so many times, i even had a restraining order for about 2 months on him,...the thing is, he has a lawyer and i dont and i cant afford one at this point...im in college full time , i dont work i just go to school but i have my own house.what do you think???im nervous cause he has a great lawyer, the best in this town..any ideas????THE MAIN REASON IM SCARED IS BECAUSE I DONT HAVE A LAWYER

ella bieracki
12-16-2007, 11:09 PM
you can get a lawyer from a agency that do it for free kinda of thing, we have here called legal aid, and he if has convictions on a list the size of my arm and you are a fit mother and have a safe home environment for them the judge will decide what is best and by the sounds of it it is you, but i wouldnt have him staying at your house just visitaion for the kids if you have a restraining order

SimplyLovely
12-17-2007, 10:14 AM
You don't need a lawyer to win in court. If you are a truly good parent then relax.

Arthur W
12-19-2007, 04:09 AM
Not unless his atty and him can prove you unfit via child and/or drug/mental abuse charges. Contact your local legal aid assoc. for free helpif you qualify. From what you wrote I see no problems for you no matter how good a atty he has. The most his atty probably can do is get his support payments lowered if hes lucky but seriously doubt it here. Good luck and Happy Holidays

pgnprincess1212
12-20-2007, 10:22 PM
The only reason the kids would not be placed with you is the fact that you have no job. How would you support the kids. I don't however see the judge putting them with him with his past.....

biglou
12-20-2007, 11:00 PM
If thats you in the pic. your hot!!!

mommy101
12-28-2007, 08:35 AM
there are lawyers that will take payments and will work with you my husband and I currently owe I'm sure around twenty grand to are lawyer for husband kids two years case we have not paid anything to are lawyer in three months yet he is still kicking but as if we have over paid him. look in the phone book if not then go to legal aid they might be able to help you if not then here is what to do get all the police reports bring them for evedence and his arrest record too. ask the court to do an inspections of his and your living conditions before making any choices as to who should have full custody if all else falls and he does get custody just sit back and wait for him to screw up then hammer him hard in the mean time get a job and start putting money away for the day he screws up if you loose. what ever you do do not ever say this is what i want. say i feel this is best for our yes our child that way you can rise above him and show the judge you care about the kids need and wants more then your own.