I can't perform due to prostate cancer. Is it

[donmwm4u]

ok for my wife to cheat?

[Sooz]

Uh- NO! It's never a good idea to try to fix a problem by bringing in "outside help". Just because you can't sexually perform, doesn't mean you can't still pleasure her... get some toys if you have to!

[STLgirl]

for better or worse..

[nene111782]

When you marry someone, you take them forever, in sickness and in health. It is never okay to cheat.

[Vitiran]

No.Cheating means doing it without your consent. The two of you need to discuss how to accomodate your condition if it's affecting your relationship.

[flipfairyflop]

no, there are other ways for you to be intimate.

[irishpr]

hell no!!!!!!There is other ways you can take care of her! You gotta know what i mean! If you don't she will cheat!

[matrushka2525]

She should support you, or else she should walk away. I mean, that is what marriage is all about.

[SuzieS]

No, it's not. If she loves you, she'll want to sit down and discuss the issue privately.

[rayrayl81]

Nope. She married you for better or for worse. Did the pastor at your wedding say, 'for better or worse unless you get cancer and can't have sex?' No. He did not.

[Christian93]

No. She married you for better or for worse. There are things you can do for her. Talk with your doctor.

[ESP123]

I am so sorry about your cancer.. I am sure your wife would not cheat on you even if you wanted her to..

[tjmoore83102]

It doesn't matter what the reason. It is not ok to cheat. You both took vows. For better or worse, in sickness and health.

[mikey_fiveoh]

If you agree to her going outside the marriage its not cheating. It is now your call!

[Lunaeclipz]

Thats up to you and your wife