Teen pregnant!?

[yeah dawg]

I realized i was three days late. so me an my 2 bffs bought THREE cheap home tests. they all said i was. so we bought first repsonse. also said positive. im not but 17. i have had the same steady bf for seven months. but about a month ago we broke up and i hooked up with a guy when i was drunk. he swore he couldnt stay hard and didnt even go. and my bf thinks its his!! but i am scared cause i dont know for a FACT. if i knew for a fact that it was my boyfriends i wouldnt be so upset but there is always that thought, cause i was drunk when i hooked up with that guy even tho he said we only actually did it for a sec cause it didnt stay hard..im so scared. and how do i tell my parents??

[Sam B]

Just sit down with them and be honest... As for the paternity if you keep the baby get a paternity test

[Nicolle W]

..... you might want to honestly consider an abortion. (here comes the hate from all the pro-lifers) get in contact with your local planned parenthood. its not to late

[aprilmcd920]

It is a lot that you are going to have to deal with it but just sit down and be honest and be calm. They may get upset and lash out but let them speak their peace. They are your parents and I am sure through it, they will become supportive. As for the paternity, be honest with your b/f and get a paternity test done. I really hope the b/f is your baby's dad. That is the price you pay though for going out and messing around like that when you shouldn't have been. Please, think twice before abortion. Babies can feel that and that is killing. I know that it is hard for you to go through this but there is other options out there besides killing your unborn child. There are so many couples out there that would love to have a baby and can't and would give that baby a good home. Good Luck and God Bless. I will be praying for you tonight!!! :)

[fatherof3]

Tell them right away and prepare for the end of your social life. Drinking and having sex at 17?? Not a good combination. Please give the baby up for adoption to parents that are financially secure and start making wise choices with your life.

[sweet_cookie]

get a ride w/ a friend to the hospital, and get an abortion. or you can tell your mom/dad. wat do you mean, "im not but 17"?? are you 17 yrs old? if you are, then you shouldn't be drinking in the first place!!

[justaskin]

Well you made a mistake that I hope you don't make again. We all make them. I guess the only choice you have is to get a paternity test done after the child is born because it is senseless to have a man take care of a child that is not his. Good luck and it's better to tell your parents sooner than later.

[mattfromasia]

These things happen. We get into a mess in our lives. The only way out of it, ultimately, is pure honesty with everyone. It won't be pretty at first in a lot of instances, but that's just how life is.Ignoring this won't make anyone's life easier in the long run. Time to just do it.Matt

[naughtygirl]

u have to tell ur aprents bcuz they are the only ones at this point that can help u. u then have to tell ur x bcuz u never know whos it could b and i dunno. u should have been on something and most of all it doesn't matter if u were drunk r not u should have not slept with someone with no protection like a condom.