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Fighter F
12-04-2007, 01:21 PM
up after confirmation of eye disease leading to blindness.? Do I call or contact my ex-fiancee to wish her a Happy Birthday? We broke up 7 weeks ago and her birthday is in a couple weeks. I really want to still have her in my life and want her to know that I care and think about her still. We broke up nicely; I still wanted to be with her but had to let her go. We talked only twice since and the last time was about a month ago and she said that she is “moving on and needed some space” (crap, I know what that means), so I haven’t made any contact since.We have a sad story. Totally fall in love, recognize that we were soul mates (she said it first), both sides of the family loved us, everything was great, we thought alike and clicked in everyway. Been engaged for 8 months and was to marry in another 7 months. She broke it off 7 days after confirmation that I have a genetic eye disease that will make me visually impaired or blind someday. She promised to be with me prior. She knew that is was a possibility 3 weeks after we first met.

DJ M
12-04-2007, 04:49 PM
what a cold heartless woman, no dont wish her anything, any woman that does that really doesnt deserve a happy birthday. she is extremely shallow

tarie75
12-06-2007, 03:36 AM
Why would you? She cant except you for who you are, thats terrible. Sorry to hear this has happenend to you.

bluesingroove
12-07-2007, 08:00 PM
no. drop her. she doesn't deserve your attention. i'm so sorry that would happen to you. what a prick

lady in black
12-07-2007, 09:09 PM
Your kidding right? Hell no don't call her! She wasn't ment for you if she broke it off because of something so important! That's what getting married and being togeather is all about. Being there through the best and the worst! Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and what you can offer them! DON"T MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY WHO MAKES YOU AN OPTION!

trueimage_81
12-10-2007, 09:46 PM
whats the point...she obviously wants nothing to do with you and she isnt worth your time anyways ...why would you want someone who broke up with because you got a genetic disease...especially when she knew about it to begin with...doesnt sound like a soulmate to me