View Full Version : my girlfriend broke up with me what should i do...
piggylaphate
11-29-2007, 11:43 AM
...now? my girlfriend called it quites on the 16th of nov. and i still want to be there for her and to be her friend but how do i do that if i really still love her. i know i need to give her space and that time will heal but i feel realy bad about how i treated her. i'm not an emotional person and to other people it can seem that i don't give a rats ass. i just feel as if the life and air have been sucked out of me and i'm sooo lost. at one time our relationship was so strong we talked about marring and building our own house, but now ...uhg
PINKONDA N
12-04-2007, 05:00 PM
Move On!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dorKie
12-04-2007, 10:43 PM
simply show her that you still love her, care for her. she might want you back. don't EVER ignore her b/c maybe she'll realize how much she means to you.....but however never ever ignore her...
Amber J
12-04-2007, 11:26 PM
Don't give up. Stick in there. I would want my man to fight for us especially if it's his fault we're not together.
Apologize if you have done something to warrant it. Then just let her be. There's really nothing that you can do at this point except hope for the best.
blodgettboy24
12-06-2007, 05:22 PM
Get over it (not to be rude)! She will eventually come back around if she desires to be your friend. No need to force her into coming back around all that will do is push her away more. Keep, yourself busy so that you can keep your mind off her but she will come back around especially if it was a long relationship.
Hope L.
12-12-2007, 09:27 PM
Get over it!!
batista_nicky
12-13-2007, 02:26 AM
try 2 remind u r past.u r always in her heart.she will excuse u unless & untill u make her feel for u r future................good luck.
Brian N
12-13-2007, 09:25 AM
Man, I'll be honest - I've been there before. For now if you really do care you've got to give her the space she needs. Now for the tough part & maybe not the conventional answer. Sometimes after time & breaking up people can be just friends, but in my experience after a long relationship that didn't end on great terms - I couldn't be friends. It wasn't for the fact that I didn't care about her - just that we were more than friends, not just friends. I think it was hard for both of us to remain friends and see each other with other people. But everyone's different. I know it feels bad right now, I've been there, but honestly after time passes it gets a little better each day. Keep your head up & you'll be alright and figure out the best way through this.
Dude, how old are you. Get over it. If she still wants to be friends she will come to you. But first stop doing the things that made her leave you in the first place.
ponting
12-16-2007, 11:09 PM
jjwrite her a note" and give it to her in class.or her locker drop it in.And write"I wanna see you,and say where to meet" ASAP"than in person you tell her..let's get back together.Show her your other side of being orgininal and sweet.she will take you back..if you prove it.and if she still does not..than move on and don't be a stalker-peace-
Indie
12-17-2007, 10:14 AM
Move on and find someone more worthwhile and worth your time! Good Luck
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