telling ur pregnant teen???!!?

[emolover]

Ok i just found out that i'm pregnant! my boyfriend passed away a month ago and 2 day i just found that i was pregnant and it's his child! my qusetion is how do i 1 tell my parents and 2 tell andy my bf's parents? and if i should tell them? and maybe wat there reaction might b that is my bf's? thank u thank thank u!luv ya!My bf died becuz he was very ill! that is all u need 2 know!

[♥kitty♥]

ummm question is why did your bf die? and anyways, just sit them down and simply tell them the truth. i say this only because sooner or later, they'll find out.

[KYMBRLEE]

My Suggestion Is To Tell Your Bestfriend Or Sibling First Then Gather Both Sets Of Parents And With You Friends Moral Support You Should Do Just Fine.

[Blue_roses]

Thats a really hard question to answer. Well it really depends on how old you are. They will probably cry (they always do) then they might be angry, then they will (in theory) accept it and try to help and nurture you and your unborn child. I am sure you will get through it all, good luck i hope it turns out for the best :)

[meressa c]

tell ur parents and then tell hiz parents.....seriously how stupid is that"how did he die"its nun of our business's so ya tell them and they should understand

[glorymomof3]

You need to sit down with both of them as soon as possible. You can tell your BF's family that you are pregnant and that it is their sons. If they ask you to prove it, you can get a blood test once the baby comes (the baby would have a little of their DNA of course). Your parents would need to know so they can make sure that you get the best care so that the baby is healthy. While you wont be able to get child support, I am sure with the premature death of their own child, your BF's family may welcome a bit of their son into their family. It might even help mend the wounds of the loss.As a parent myself, the initial shock of the reveal would kill me, i would want the best for my child and would not want her to go through it alone. there is nothing one can say once the deed has been done. you have to deal with it.

[Summer Monkey]

be calm and honest. It is ok to cry. You may have to regain the responsibility of your parents. It was your choice. You knew the possible outcome. It is very dangerous for a teen and as you probably know illegal so be careful.

[Double H]

Just tell them - there is no special way to go about it... and you need to tell the bfs parents. I was preg. when I was 17 (I am 32 now) and my bfs parents were the biggest blessing in my case... I know all people are different, but my bfs parents really supported me emotionally and helped me through some rough times. They actually threw him out and and gave me & the baby his room because they were so mad he was not treating me right. We are still really close even though I am married now and have kids with my new husband. MY parents on the other hand were not so much help at first - they were mad at me and it took them a long time to see that I was capable of being a good mother.

[alice]

Tell your parents that you have something to confess,and discuss,after that also tell your boy F..parent's too.Try not to run this problem,cause you have responsibility in this case.Ingnore all kind feelings and reaction,even that scare and anger for both of them.Try to be mature girl.

[tinkerrinnie]

you should tell your parents and his parents as soon as possible. most parents are more accepting today than they were in years past. i grew up without my dad and wish that my mom would have pushed for both him and his family to be a part of my life. i was 23 before i finally met him and his family. i just wish it happened sooner. the best advice i could tell you is tell your parents and your former boyfriends parents because im sure they would be overjoyed to have a grandchild.

[jerrys1960]

There is no easy way to tell everyone and I am not sure if it would be best to tell each set of parents separately together a lot would depend on their personality.Though I suspect that getting them all together and saying something to the nature of: “I wanted you all together because I have something important to tell all of you and will it be a shock I hope that you will try to remain calm. For there are many options I could have done other than try to talk to you about this. Before "bf’s name" died we had sex together and I am now carrying his child. I know we cant work out all the answers tonight but I hope we can at least start talking about it.”Of course put that in your own words.But no matter what, you are going to have to tell them soon. Cause one way or another they are obviously going to find out. Even though there will probably be a lot of shock and probably comments that are not appropriate, in the long run it will be better if you tell them. Even though it will probably be the hardest thing you have ever done.Good luck.and may Our Creator watch over you and your family.

[Brandy P]

be open and honest with your parents when telling them, yes they may be mad or upset but they'll get over it and they'll still love you and be there for you... I would tell his parents.. but I would tell yours first that way maybe they can go with you when you go to tell his... his parents have a right to know just as much as your parents do seeing as how the baby will be their grandchild to and hopefully they will want it to be a part of their lives which will be great for the baby seeing as how his/her father will not be able to be around given to your situation (I am very sorry to hear about it seems like your in a very tough situation) but it will give the baby a better chance to learn about his/her daddy and at least be able to have his family in it's life... if the parents are uncertain about whether or not it's really their sons, let them know that you are certain it is but if it would make them more comfortable you can look into a way of getting a DNA test maybe using their DNA and you will get something done to prove ithope that helps