Should I tell a guy I dated that I only see...

[ex-med term student]

...him as a friend? We dated a couple of times. I only see him as a friend and nothing more. Should I tell him by email. We are in two different cities and theres no contact number, or just leave it alone and lose all contact so we don't correspond. I think I already knows but not sure.

[Bitty]

By all means be honest... but remember that all people met each other ONCE and it might just lead to a better and deeper relationship... don't give up on it before it could go somewhere!

[chaminda l]

Just tell him but don't ignore him

[don n]

He probably feels the same way. I would just leave it alone and lose contact.

[Lalala]

Just tell him that you're sorry if you led him on, but you'd much rather be friends because you think that there is someone out there that'd be a better match for him. Try to break it to him easily and don't just cut it off with him. That's not cool because then he'd be more hurt that way.

[crazy sexy cool]

you dont talk? at all? tell him dont be a cock tease.

[Raymundo]

to tell a guy that you just wanna be friends over any electronic device is just plain stupid, wrong, and cowardly. you may be able to go against the cowardly part since you in two different cities without a contact number, but its best to say those kinds of things in person. its the least you can do...

[DAVID C]

If you can let him know by e-mail I assume he can also contact you in the same fashion. I would wait for her to contact me first, then let her know exactly how I feel. If no attempt is made by him he most likely feels the same as you about it, and would be best left alone.

[Adelaide]

I would tell him and at least spare him the agony of wondering what went wrong if you just stopped talking to him altogether.I know I wouldn't like it if someone I'd been talking to and even dated once just up and vanished never to be seen or heard from again.I would wonder if anything happened to them or what I did to make them not want to be around me any more.So at least tell him you just want to be friends and if he's willing to accept that then everything should be OK.

[pachhi]

you must tell him.bcoz your thinking is your sole