Does the difference in views matter in love relationships

[Ashka]

Does the difference in views, interests and personal development level matter in love relationships? I was wondering whether the differences mentioned above can be an obstacle in relationships between the two young people. Would be great to know your opinion about it. Thanks in advance!

[zenith]

no it shouldnt make a difference.. its actually good that we all dont have the same point of view on everything, if we did life would be boring

[Bunda]

Lover need to understand that sharing the same ground from the neutral understanding made that relationship more spices. As long that the rule of neutral is fairly practice. The only obstacle,when the differences based on oneself benefits. That made the other,simon say puppet.Indeed this differences made both learned more of views,interest and such.

[010081]

From the perspective of a mature person who has had a broken marriage and seen many other relationships founder, I can assure you that unless you have fundamental similarities in all the areas you mention, there is not much hope for a relationship to last.You may be initially attracted to someone who is different to you, but the differences can get very wearing after 10-20 years.

[Deepak]

I believe that a relationship must have a balance of difference/commonalaties to survive. The major issues of religions, politics and views on family need to be shared, but individual preferences, likes and personal development can be very different. I hope this helps.