I hate people who just call you stupid and crap just

[curious_about_life]

cause you are a teen and think you maybe pregnant.? I mean does anyone else not think thats rude? I don't post these things to get called names and stuff. I do it for advice. Lots of teens are having sex. So I maybe pregnant and I'm stupid and dumb and all that crap????I don't get it.I just know that if i AM pregnant, I sure wouldnt be calling my baby a mistake...that would probably be the worst thing a child could ever hear from their parents

[XxNeonXx]

cuase people are @sses. my friend has a daughter and people always jump down her thoart. everyones gonna do it they dont seem to remember they made descions in there life to that were stupid. keep your head up and dont let people on here or anyone for that matter get you down! i hope everything okay~

[mom2wyo.]

I would not say you are stupid but you are just not understanding the real severity of having sex and the consequenses of getting pregnant or even stds. You dont realize how hard it is to take care and support a baby and you dont have enough education to get a real good job. I am not saying you cant take care of a baby but it just makes it harder on you and even your parents or bf who ever. It is always better to wait. GL

[Baby on board]

It's sad, but it is a fact of life that people love to judge other people...especially on public forums where the worse they cop in return is a thumbs down (let's see how many I get!)My best advice is that you make sure you are comfortable in yourself and learn to ignore people that try and bring you down. Also, the old "treat others how you would like to be treated" is important. If you give a compliment to someone today, they may remember how nice it was and give a compliment to someone else tomorrow and so on.I don't care that you might be pregnant, it is your life... shit happens and people make mistakes. A mistake does not make you a bad person... how you deal with that mistake is 100 times more important.EDIT//// I agree with what you have added, an unplanned pregnancy doesn't necessarily mean an unwanted pregnancy. I hope that you did not think that I was referring to your unborn baby (if you are pregnant) as a mistake...I just meant mistakes in general.

[_adoRkable]

Using contraceptives to NOT become pregnant, that would be the SMART thing to do.

[zaaachh]

You're right. it's rude. This is for advice and answers, not to be called names. Try to ignore those people, and just try to take the advice thats given to you, they don't know you so try not to let it get to you. Now you know to be safe next time, everything happens for a reason. I had a friend who thought she was pregnant and everything that she was going through seemed unimaginable for a 14 year old to have that much stress, and everybody turned on her. The people that make fun of you have probably never been through or seen someone go through what you're going through. Surround yourself around supportive people. Good luck :)

[binker]

If people are calling you awful stuff like that then they sound like they have some growing up to do. Shit happens to everyone. It's not the ideal thing to have a baby when your young but if it happens theres lots of options. Find out if you really are and talk to some one you really trust. Figure out what your going to do. Good luck.

[tayla]

Please ignore them. They are not helping you at all by putting you down. If they told you you shouldnt of had sex what are you really gunna do about it now? Thats in the past and people have to give you advice for your future.

[coolliz2444]

I've heard numerous people tell me that their parents think they were a mistake, and these people usually dont have good relationships with their parents, and some do, and some of these pregnancies were just unplanned. I dont think any child is a mistake, but life will throw its challenges at you, and I dont think anyone who might be pregnant as a teenager is stupid, but I think that they should have waited longer, and had protected sex, and that way they could still enjoy their teenage years without the finacial responsibility and headache of having to deal with problems while taking care of a child.

[Pist]

Maybe they're not calling you stupid because your pregnant.. maybe your just a stupid person. Baked or not.

[CJ21]

You are so right!!! I totally agree with you 100% :) I was pregnant too. And when I needed some advice because I didn't know who to go to I posted a few quetions and people were saying I'm stupid and I shouldn't have been having sex anyways. But they don't understand my situation. I am very young and nobody is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. I'm not stupid for it though. And you aren't either I totally understand. I also posted along with my questions if they would not be rude about it and put me down and they still did. People now days are so inconsiderate. But yes I totally agree. Finally someone understands. Just don't let those people put you down :) Best of luck in whatever you do (if you are pregnant.)

[Chop Top]

If they call you stupid just call them a donkey raping sh*t eater.