How do I make a great impression with a lady I'm

[Dwain S]

very interested in dating without seeming desperate? I am very interested in starting a relationship with a lady that has just gone through a divorce. Her best friend is trying to set us up. How can I make a really great impression on her without coming across as rushing her or being desperate. I can be patient, but I really want her to know how much I think about her. I really want to "wow" her in some way. Is there anything I can do?

[jordan101angel]

smile at her and look into her eyes

[Joe C]

Stay away from that woman, unless her husband was unfaithful, and that was the reason for the divorce.

[getmymackon]

Just let her know that when she's ready you'll be waiting.

[king_art_thegreat]

just be you, and dont act like the ex-husband, we all know how that worked out in the end

[Dory]

I think that you need to just become a good friend first, one that she can trust, and then slowly start asking her to go have a luch, or out for some coffee but don't ask her to the movies just yet.

[Zienna M.C. B]

befriend her sincerely. Be there in times of her joy and sorrow and in due time she might fall for you aswell.

[Izetriyen]

probably do something that doesnt require too much talking. and make it more about having fun. find out what her interests are say go to an aquarium or art fair or whatever so she feels comfortable. or find someplace to walk around that interests both of you. good luck

[last_errant_knight]

walk the difficult and precarious ground between un-interested and interested. make small talk when the situation allows. don't make yourself available all the time. as long as you are marketable, she will remain interested. if she believes, even subconciously, that you're not marketable, she will start looking.I have found in my own nearly 20-years of marriage that it IS the small things that matter most to a woman (at least the ones worth having).

[hotchotlver]

DONT DO IT!!!! She has just been through a divorce.....dont start doing something that you cant continue for the next 50 years.....You can "wow" a woman by just being friends.....at first...taking it slow....going out and having a good time...Show her that you are there for her and not just after "sex". Sometimes the simplest things such as going out, watching funny movies, acting silly, can "wow" a woman and leave more of a memory then 4 dozen roses and an expensive cruise.

[Wade C]

Since you did not give a name I'll make one up, you can change her name to her real name.Cindyyyyy how are you doing, listen I'm going over to the park later on, how about accompanying me, it is a beauuutiful day out, too good to waste. Lets go.You can change park for what ever place you feel would be romantic emphasize her name and pleasing descriptions, if you can include feelings like , ohhhhhhh it would feel soooo good there, imagine the cool breeze etc...Key words make it fun, enticing, and inviting.Get her imagining how it would be with you.I just thought of something, how recent was this divorce? If it was too recent, going after her may turn her off, she may be suffering. But if you notice on the other hand she is glad to be rid of him "look out world here I come" attitude then you are probably pretty safe.