I'm getting a divorce. i don't live with my spouse

[jesse h]

but she is an NCO? My spouse is and NCO in another unit and we are going through a divorce. she was told by me and other NCOs that she was not to be around this soldier. but i have see and told her that what she is doing is not allowed . Please tell me what i can do. she tells me that she is allowed to be with him because they are friends. last time i checked that was not allowed for soldiers and NCOs to be friends. Also this soldier was once under her.

[J.M.C]

so what?? let them stew in their own mess.....and besides you mentioned "this soldier was once under her"..i bet it was much more than once !!!!

[Daddy Big Dawg]

NCO are allowed to have friends who have not yet made it to the rank of E5 (Just not a sexual relationship). My question to you is are you in the military yourself?Also since y'all are getting a divorce, why do you care who she hangs with?

[embellishment3]

If you are getting a divorce and you do not live with your spouse why are you worrying about what soldier is doing his duties ?LOL

[bigapple]

She can be prosecuted under the Uniform Code of Military Justice for not obeying a rule set down.She is not divorced yet until you officially sign papers.Until then, she must keep clean and being with another soldier is grounds for an Article 15 or a letter of repremand.There is another story slightly to this one where a woman pilot in the Airforce was seeing another Airman while he was married.She was given an dishonorable discharge. The news spread fast and people that it was a harsh punishment, the military has standards that must be followed.The Airmen was given an article 15 and a dishonorable dishcharge.knowing that he was married and his wife allegedly divorced him.

[Finn]

Since you are both in the military, try talking to the chaplain. Some things like this can be treated as confidential because you are seeking counsel. Frequently military chaplains are pretty familar with rules. Tough part is if it gets into Uniform Code of Military Justice / UCMJ area.Your standing would probably be quite understood if a senior officer asks you what you knew and you said, "Hey, I told her I didn't think it was appropriate for an NCO." Then at least you can say Hey, I told her. What she is doing now is of her own free will.One another completely different note outside of official protocol, it just doesn't look good.I wish you could be in a better situation.....Finn.

[notagain49]

I don't understand the question?

[raniokoye]

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