how many have had miscarriages?

[megggie86]

i just had a miscarriage about two months and it is so hard to deal with. I was going ot have to raise the baby on my own and i know it was going to be hard but i feel like this is harder. just needed to know anything from women who have had miscarriages about how they dealt with it. how many have they had? how soon did you get pregnant again, if you did?thank you!i hate when people say things happen for a reason too!!!!!

[clark_jax]

Miscarriages are a lot more common than you may think. I miscarried when i was about three months along in march '05. I am currently 8 months pregnant and very healthy. There is not much people can do to console you as far as I was concerned and I really got tired of hearing that things happen for a reason. I think you just have to give yourself time to heal from your loss-time heals all wounds

[Moz]

I, myself have not miscarried but I do know a few friends who have. One had 2 miscarrys before having a baby. Another had a baby, 2 miscarrys and now having another baby. Another had 3 children with miscarrys before and in between all children... They are alot more common then people realise but until it happens to you or someone close to you, you don't hear of it.I am truely sorry for your loss, I do not know how it feels, I could only imagine. The pain I felt when I saw my friends go through it was absolutly horrible. But I do think everything happens for a reason. What that reason is, only you will have the answer to one day.Good Luck.

[mandy l]

My first pregnancy I didn't know I was pregnant until I had the miscarriage and it really didn't sink in until 4 weeks later, I was emotional drained but I took it one day at a time about 5 months after the pregnancy I got Pregnant again and unfortunately the father and my friends didn't believe me and they caught me off guard one night and just got me upset so badly that when I went over to my x boyfriends house to stay with him and his roommate they say to didn't breath a couple of times and I ended up waking up in pains and well miscarriage, Couple of years went by and I saw my friends having babies and I wounder if I would and now I'm pregnant with a baby girl. You will deal with it in your own way and yes it will hurt for a while but life does go on and there will be another Chance in life for that little miracle or your own. Good luck and I wish you best for the future

[coop]

I have had 2 miscarriages-I am currently 34weeks pregnant. It took me over a year to fall pregnant from my last miscarriage (due to low hormone levels) and there is nothing anyone can say or do to help you overcome it. You will never forget what happened but it will become easier as time goes on. All you can do is try to carry on with everyday life. I agree with you-I hate it when people say that things obviously happen for a reason. One of the most insensitive things I had said to me after my last misscarriage came from my mother-in-law 3 days after I lost the baby. I was sitting with her and my husband at her place for dinner-trying so hard not to cry when she brought it up and said- "It's probably for the best-Healthy babies don't abort themselves".

[bluestar]

i hav had 2 mc............... first at 7 weeks, then fell again 2 weeks later but mc'd at 5 weeks....... im off to a specialist.....sorry for ur losss i kno how u feel....time helpsttc#1 for 7 months

[anna k]

I went into pre-term delivery when i was 5 months pregnant this past January.........doctors told me i have an incompetent cervix. it took me a little while to pick my head back up. i felt like my world had crashed right in front of me.what I'm getting at is, everything happens for a reason. you will start feeling better in your own time. I recently found out that i am pregnant. 7 weeks to be exact!Things will get better. if its meant to be than it will happen. good luck and best wishes to you.

[mummy of 2]

I had a miscarriage in july. It was one of the worst days of my life. I didnt have any signs of miscarriage so was gutted to learn at the 12 week scan that baby had died around week 8. My family supported me through it an my 2 other kids kept me going. People saying things like "it happened for a reason" or "it wasnt to be" dont help at all. I got pregnant 6 weeks after miscarriage and im now 13 weeks pregnant. Sorry for your loss an i hope you feel better soon. x