how do you move foward after a divorce from your...

[elizabeth t]

...first and long lasting husband. he will not leave my heart .? we were together for a long time and have three children . he has been married and divorced again but isn't interested in me. I need your ideas and help with this. help, help help!

[justanotherone]

Why did you get divorced in the first place? Did he reject you and you can't get over the rejection? Or did you push him way and now he doesn't want the rejection again?You can't make someone love you. Either he does or he doesn't. Please stop trying to push this relationship. Just work on friendship with him. Who knows? Maybe it will grow into love again?

[still_lost]

why did you end up divorcing him in the first palce?it must be a very firm decision and dont dwell i it too long.move on.

[CHAMP]

you need to move on he has sorry

[Casper]

I know it is painful, But Now is the time to start to get to know yourself and learn how to stop relying on him to make you happy. Your not the only one theirs Meany people who are in the same boat. I've been in a 9 year marriage and it's been only a year and I'm still learning to move on with my life. The real answer to your question is one word, "time". Time will heal a person and you will soon come to live with out him. You have to meet new people and learn not to dwell in the past. Look forward and stop looking in the rear view mirror.

[Don m]

Blaze on out on the highway of life and get laid.enjoy life girlyou'll get over him if you get involved with life