My mom has breast cancer and?

[jazzy]

i feel like im not supportive at all. I love my mom more than anyone and she does EVERYTHING for me.. Last month she was diagnosed with Breast cancer.. She had her breast removed and now they are saying that she needs to have more lymphnods removed and the high possiblity of chemo therapy..Shes scared and so is my family..But i feel like im keep pushing it aside and caring about what i got to do. I am not a self centered person at all but ever since this has happened i feel like i want to care more than i do..i hear her crying and its hard for me to comfort her..im never like this..i have no idea what is wrong with me..

[Nicole L]

You need to be comfortable about the support you're giving your mom. Try little things like being extra helpful around the house, or maybe take her out to eat, just something to take the strain off her during this difficult period. It shows that you're thinking of her needs, and it won't prompt a conversation about how you feel. It's really hard when you see a different side of your parents, especially when you're watching them struggle. Don't worry it's totally normal to feel the way you're feeling, and eventually you will come back to your good old self.

[graygurl26]

Supporting your mother emotionally is the best thng you can do. When my aunt was diagnosed, I felt the same way. You can support her. I bought my aunt a breast cancer survivor shirt before she beat it and it gave her courage to get through. Just staying by her side is important. Try to keep a positive attitude whenever possible. Most importantly, you and your family need to have faith. My aunt beat it and so can your mom. Stay strong, stay supportive, and pray. Jesus works miracles. Remember that a strong family can get through any obstacle :) Good luck and I wish you and your family well

[RealAge.com]

First of all, what you are feeling is quite normal. It is your "denial" phase, you may also go through an anger phase. So what can you do?Sit down with your mom and tell her how you have been feeling and that you are scared you may lose her. It's okay to talk about your fears and ask her about her fears. It is much healthier, for the both of you to get it out in the open .You may want to take a look at the cancer site blog links below:Hang in there and give yourself and your mom a big hug..

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