Should I tell my husband

[Ashma]

I was very active before I got married. actually had sex around with 30+ sexy mens. Should I tell my husband he has no idea and I dont know how he will react. I really want to get this off my chest but im not sure if I should.

[010081]

wow 30+ huh,anyway its always good to share about the past,but before you share its better to know about your husband ,try to make him speak out about his girlfirends and soosos then share it.if you husband is not so co-operative just forget it.

[Greylin]

Yes I think you should be open and honest with your husband and let him know about your past and you should hopefully be getting the same in return from your husband. If this is something that is really bothering you is will be best to get it off your chest.

[1mak]

it depends on your husband, what are thinking would he said about your confession?? in my opinion it is not very important to tell your partner about your former sexlife, because sometimes it makes them mad.

[butchik]

For me past is past. If he ask you about it then reveal it. If somehow he is the jealous type then better keep unless he insist you on knowing the details.

[dasha101]

If this thing is bothering you, better tell your husband. He is a guy so if he really loves you he will understand. I suppose he had partners also before you. With this, you can see how deep his love for you is.

[sadcox]

If it really bothers you, tell him. If he's worth keeping it won't matter that much and you'll feel much better.

If it isn't that big of a deal to you, let it slide. What you do from today and going forward mean more than what you did in the past.

[st1905]

For me if my wife tells me that she had relationships with over 30 guys i dont know what can i do.I think i leave her if she makes this kind of thing to me.Do not judge me please.

[greenstar91]

Well your obviously married becuase you love him and im sure if he loves you it shouldnt matter what you tell him becuase he should respect that. Maybe you could just telling him in a different way like yes you had sex before him but that was beofre you got married and he is the one that made you stop with all these other men.

[xeric]

well, it was fine if you were engaged with single or double person but as you said your past has a history and a record of 30+ guys. so baby, its hard enough for your husband to accept the truth. its better to not share.

if it was 1, 2 guys then there was no problem. but its a 30+. haha.