Loneliness & Depression; Do You Ever Get To The Point...

[KJT]

...You Can't Take It? I have a small circle of friends, but they also have their own lives.I don't have a g/f and can't seem to find one anymore for some reason.Does anyone else deal or have dealt with something like this?If so, how do you feel? Does anything make you feel this way? And how do you deal with it?I just want to know because I want to get better.

[JinJu]

KJT:My response is not based on psychology, but my own experience and life. How you feel is not largely dependent on having many friends. You can only spend so much time with so many people anyway.I think the main point is feeling content within your own self. For me this mostly happens from doing well at school, being kind to other people and practicing my Catholic Faith.For example, I make frequent confessions to the same priest. He is so understanding and helpful. Father prays for me and absolves my sins in the name of Christ. But regardless of your faith, know that God loves all of His children. Have great comfort in knowing how He personally cares about you.So say prayers, do good to others, perform your daily work well. All these things will help you feel (at least somewhat) better. Finally, there are certainly medical conditions that can make you feel lonely and depressed. Consider seeing a doctor to discuss your situation.I have already said a prayer for you.Jin Ju

[lly]

Dude all you gotta do is try to improve your life. That has happened to me before, i was depressed and very lonely, so i went to a psychologist and it helped me a lot, but i gotta tell you, you have to chance by your own, you have to help yourself go through this. And if you can't find a gf, it's because your depression and loneliness is clearly obvious. Girls want funny, happy guys, and not sad ones. So i'd say that first step is finding what makes you depressed, try to deal with it, try to change it. Second take good care of yourself...find things that makes you happy, like going to the movies, playing music, etc... third don't depend on your friends...sometimes family is the best help you can get at this time. And you will see that things will change bit by bit...and you will feel better.That's how i delt with it.

[pokerfaces55]

i have more or less gave up on women in this country..between the bra burning feminizes and the over barring(wish they had testicles) group.. its pointless... if i wanted a partner that acted like they had a set of nuts..it would just be easier to become fairyIve gone elsewhere to find me a good women.. one that will not only act like a real women but what a women is really suppose to act, like taking care of the house.. being my second in command so to speak when I'm not there.. a good women knows the man is meant to be in charge and has her own set of priorities assigned to her as does any manadding opinions to an issue that needs attention without demanding or assuming anything beyond what it is..(just because i buy myself a milkshake and not one for you doesn't mean i think u are fat)i work hard... i don't play around...i don't get drunk and beat you up.. i see to your needs when it possible.. and i don't yell and scream at all.. isn't this what is meant by ,,,, nice guy..well this nice guy is off the market to American women..tried of getting screwed glued and tattooed I'm not an ATM machine for your whims.. nor am i a mind reader that becomes the blunt receiver of your rages when i don't know what i was suppose to knowthat slit you hold over our heads isnt made of gold..i would rather spank my monkey then jump through any more hoops in order to fornacate with it